*EDIT, MOST OF TEN YEARS LATER*
I've left the ad below as I wrote it a long time ago, because it represents a snapshot of the way I was feeling and thinking then, when I had only recently realized an interest in D/s.
I wouldn't write it *exactly* the same way today (see post number 15 in this thread for some insight into how my thinking about D/s has evolved), but it's still pretty accurate.
What's different these days? I guess mainly that I now have enough experience to be confident of what I can do for a partner, when the chemistry is there. And I have perhaps become more careful, not just about my partners' feelings and safety, but about who I actually get close to, and how I present myself, even before intimacy is on the table.
With that said, please feel free to have a look at what my voyage of discovery has been like. And then, if you're a girl seeking a guide on her own journey, ask yourself if the hand to draw you onward, the voice to whisper into your ear, might be mine.
All the best,
Blase
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Hello, ladies, and welcome to the ad I never thought I'd write.
I originally came to Lit looking to read erotica, and stayed to write it in SRP threads.
Sub-Dom play? What about it?! I'd never been involved in it and never gave it much thought since, frankly, many aspects of the scene (e.g., the desire to cause a lot of physical pain) just don't resonate with me.
Imagine my surprise, then, when *all* of my early SRP partners turned out to either be self-identified subs or have submissive tendencies! I had realized an aspect of my fantasy life that I had been largely unconscious of.
I realized something else, as well. A lot of female subs, especially inexperienced ones, were experiencing rather shabby treatment from guys who called themselves Doms but who might be more accurately described simply as jerks.
So, I am placing this ad because I have come to see that I may, against all expectations - especially my own - have something to offer here.
Here's what I'm offering, in the full expectation that this ad will be one that interests the few, rather than the many...
I'm seeking girls (women) who would like to be dominated but NOT looked upon as my inferiors, cursed at or called nasty names, or treated unfairly, outside of the agreed-upon inequality implicit in our play or perhaps, to some extent, in our relationship outside of our "formal" playtime.
This would be all online, at least initially, though I'm not ruling out possibilities like phone or even real life should the chemistry be there.
It's got to be obvious, but let me state for the record that very submissive subs or girls who really want to feel personally degraded should NOT apply, as we will only frustrate each other.
My style falls mostly under the heading of "light humiliation", where I have you do deliciously indecent (largely sexual) things and simultaneously confront you with your own indecency, so that you're blushing to the roots of your hair even as that blush is mottled by the deeper flush of your impending orgasm.
Maybe I should mention that you have to take off your clothes a lot.
So, there you have it. If you're a female who's been hurt but still wants to explore her submissiveness in a gentler context, or if you're inexperienced and perhaps have been afraid to try...
Think about this ad. Feel free to read my writings in the SRP area (especially Backstage). See if you feel yourself responding to my fantasies and my imaginative, intellectual style. If so, contact me and let's talk.
No need to be scared. But trembling is allowed...
I've left the ad below as I wrote it a long time ago, because it represents a snapshot of the way I was feeling and thinking then, when I had only recently realized an interest in D/s.
I wouldn't write it *exactly* the same way today (see post number 15 in this thread for some insight into how my thinking about D/s has evolved), but it's still pretty accurate.
What's different these days? I guess mainly that I now have enough experience to be confident of what I can do for a partner, when the chemistry is there. And I have perhaps become more careful, not just about my partners' feelings and safety, but about who I actually get close to, and how I present myself, even before intimacy is on the table.
With that said, please feel free to have a look at what my voyage of discovery has been like. And then, if you're a girl seeking a guide on her own journey, ask yourself if the hand to draw you onward, the voice to whisper into your ear, might be mine.
All the best,
Blase
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Hello, ladies, and welcome to the ad I never thought I'd write.
I originally came to Lit looking to read erotica, and stayed to write it in SRP threads.
Sub-Dom play? What about it?! I'd never been involved in it and never gave it much thought since, frankly, many aspects of the scene (e.g., the desire to cause a lot of physical pain) just don't resonate with me.
Imagine my surprise, then, when *all* of my early SRP partners turned out to either be self-identified subs or have submissive tendencies! I had realized an aspect of my fantasy life that I had been largely unconscious of.
I realized something else, as well. A lot of female subs, especially inexperienced ones, were experiencing rather shabby treatment from guys who called themselves Doms but who might be more accurately described simply as jerks.
So, I am placing this ad because I have come to see that I may, against all expectations - especially my own - have something to offer here.
Here's what I'm offering, in the full expectation that this ad will be one that interests the few, rather than the many...
I'm seeking girls (women) who would like to be dominated but NOT looked upon as my inferiors, cursed at or called nasty names, or treated unfairly, outside of the agreed-upon inequality implicit in our play or perhaps, to some extent, in our relationship outside of our "formal" playtime.
This would be all online, at least initially, though I'm not ruling out possibilities like phone or even real life should the chemistry be there.
It's got to be obvious, but let me state for the record that very submissive subs or girls who really want to feel personally degraded should NOT apply, as we will only frustrate each other.
My style falls mostly under the heading of "light humiliation", where I have you do deliciously indecent (largely sexual) things and simultaneously confront you with your own indecency, so that you're blushing to the roots of your hair even as that blush is mottled by the deeper flush of your impending orgasm.
Maybe I should mention that you have to take off your clothes a lot.
So, there you have it. If you're a female who's been hurt but still wants to explore her submissiveness in a gentler context, or if you're inexperienced and perhaps have been afraid to try...
Think about this ad. Feel free to read my writings in the SRP area (especially Backstage). See if you feel yourself responding to my fantasies and my imaginative, intellectual style. If so, contact me and let's talk.
No need to be scared. But trembling is allowed...
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