Bi Married and closeted

CNYCarol said:

It would be a VERY long drive, I moved from Syracuse, NY to North Carolina 12 years ago.

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GloriHoleLover2 said:

I noted the Central New York Carol handle! (How could you tear yourself away from Onondaga County "lake effect" snow and the -23 degrees we had here yesterday morning??? )

I live at the extreme eastern edge of the fabled North Country...not terribly far from Rachel Ray's hometown. It's not a terribly long drive to NC, depending on where you live in that LONG state! Just under 900 miles from here to Asheville.

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GloriHoleLover2 said:

I noted the Central New York Carol handle! (How could you tear yourself away from Onondaga County "lake effect" snow and the -23 degrees we had here yesterday morning??? )

I live at the extreme eastern edge of the fabled North Country...not terribly far from Rachel Ray's hometown. It's not a terribly long drive to NC, depending on where you live in that LONG state! Just under 900 miles from here to Asheville.

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CNYCarol said:

A simple 10 minute drive east and I can dive into the Atlantic. That is as close to giving out my location as I get.

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CNYCarol said:

I think I may have started something. I've had over 30 guys respond privately saying how much they wish their wives would be up for watching. Several have hinted at letting another guy mount their wife in an anything goes MMF.

You guyz have no imagination, Tell the Mrs you want to try everything she does. It may take a few days for her to realize it, but you just told her you want to suck. When she catches on, go slowly. Ask her what it's like, how does it taste.

NEVER tell her you've had a suck buddy while she's been with you, that makes you a cheater. That will destroy any trust she ever had.

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CNYCarol said:

I think I may have started something. I've had over 30 guys respond privately saying how much they wish their wives would be up for watching. Several have hinted at letting another guy mount their wife in an anything goes MMF.

You guyz have no imagination, Tell the Mrs you want to try everything she does. It may take a few days for her to realize it, but you just told her you want to suck. When she catches on, go slowly. Ask her what it's like, how does it taste.

NEVER tell her you've had a suck buddy while she's been with you, that makes you a cheater. That will destroy any trust she ever had.

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CNYCarol said:

I think I may have started something. I've had over 30 guys respond privately saying how much they wish their wives would be up for watching. Several have hinted at letting another guy mount their wife in an anything goes MMF.

You guyz have no imagination, Tell the Mrs you want to try everything she does. It may take a few days for her to realize it, but you just told her you want to suck. When she catches on, go slowly. Ask her what it's like, how does it taste.

NEVER tell her you've had a suck buddy while she's been with you, that makes you a cheater. That will destroy any trust she ever had.

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CNYCarol said:

I think I may have started something. I've had over 30 guys respond privately saying how much they wish their wives would be up for watching. Several have hinted at letting another guy mount their wife in an anything goes MMF.

You guyz have no imagination, Tell the Mrs you want to try everything she does. It may take a few days for her to realize it, but you just told her you want to suck. When she catches on, go slowly. Ask her what it's like, how does it taste.

NEVER tell her you've had a suck buddy while she's been with you, that makes you a cheater. That will destroy any trust she ever had.

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fetishdan said:

Been closeted bi for many years. You are not alone at all. Love my wife but there is that ever present urge to suck a hard a cock that I tried to block for years but now I love that part of me. Only wish there was fwb in my life to act on these urges when they happen.

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klippert said:

I'm bi married....48. the internet is my outlet, and i like it that way. I feel no need to wave a flag or make any demands. I've accepted who i am.

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cuck72 said:

We're an older couple, and this is exactly how I am, and my wife wouldn't understand. She knows I think of eating another man's cream pie from her as I tell her in my fantasies while I eat her, but she doesn't comment on that. But she has no idea I masturbate watching gay porn and thinking I'm that bottom sucking cock , or that I have wearing panty sissy fantasies.

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fetishdan said:

Been closeted bi for many years. You are not alone at all. Love my wife but there is that ever present urge to suck a hard a cock that I tried to block for years but now I love that part of me. Only wish there was fwb in my life to act on these urges when they happen.

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PinkPanties4me said:

My wife and I are both in our 60’s and I have no complaints about our early years with sex. But of course as time goes by, her interest in sex has diminished quite a bit.
Earlier in our sex life, I would fantasize about another panty wearing man involved with the both of us. I would talk to her about during sex and she went along with it, never complaining . Now since she just doesn’t have the desire as much as I do, I feel those desires for me have become stronger as her desire for sex have weakened. We still do have sex , just not as much and I am thankful for that.
I should note that I could never cheat on her. So, having this outlet here is the best I can do.
I had corresponded with a fellow here for a while, but I felt the guilt of cheating , so I stopped.
I know this feeling will not go away, but like most of you I don’t want to lose what it has taken most of my life to achieve.

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CNYCarol said:

NEVER tell her you've had a suck buddy while she's been with you, that makes you a cheater. That will destroy any trust she ever had.

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hopingforthebest said:

Recently told my wife I was interested in sucking a real one as she got real excited when I would suck her strapon before she would peg me. She seemed interested in it so the other night I grabbed one of her dildos and started sucking on it as we were playing, instant wetness and orgasm, she loved it! This morning we started making out and fooling around when I started talking about sucking a cock for her, having him cum in my mouth, then 69 with her while he fucks her so I can lick her and him at the same time with him pulling out and sticking it in my mouth then back to her pussy, when I asked her where she would like him to cum at in her pussy so I could lick it out or in my mouth she said she wanted to see me take a facial.
I think several more role plays like this and I will broach the subject of actually getting someone involved. Can't wait to actually suck a cock for her and with her.

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newcouple1128 said:

Wife and I are bicurious. Only two of our gay friends know. We have never had same sex contact before, wife doesn't want to play with others. Maybe one day we can share a cock together.

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Lost_Yonder said:

she wouldn't even be open to watching you with a guy? it must be a bit of a challenge when the desires are shared, but the interest in realizing them are not! but at least you have a foundation to work with, a much better position, so it seems, that what many of us have to deal with...

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CNYCarol said:

OK, I'm in heat! If any of you guys need a safe place to play together and would be into a mature woman watching you? Let me know, hands off, I'm only a spectator!

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newcouple1128 said:

We used to openly talk about her being with a girl and me a guy and same time play but guilt or something got to her and now she doesn't like tlaking about that stuff.

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