Married Women Who Fantasize About Girls
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Screw up your courage
I harbored unacknowledged feelings about girls for years and it was only a chance encounter that brought them to the surface. If you can accomplish a connection without hurting your husband, you need to put yourself in situations where you encounter women who might signal you their interest: the library, bookstores especially among the erotica offerings, universities (try the women's center). These have been my hunting grounds. I haven't told my husband really, just obliquely. He's hinted that he isn't the least bit threatened by other women's interest in me whereas he would explode if I flirted with men.
To a certain extent, you need to try this out and see if it is what you expected. Unresolved fantasies can be much more distracting than an occasional diddle with a friend.
I harbored unacknowledged feelings about girls for years and it was only a chance encounter that brought them to the surface. If you can accomplish a connection without hurting your husband, you need to put yourself in situations where you encounter women who might signal you their interest: the library, bookstores especially among the erotica offerings, universities (try the women's center). These have been my hunting grounds. I haven't told my husband really, just obliquely. He's hinted that he isn't the least bit threatened by other women's interest in me whereas he would explode if I flirted with men.
To a certain extent, you need to try this out and see if it is what you expected. Unresolved fantasies can be much more distracting than an occasional diddle with a friend.
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I'm glad I found this thread!! I'm 38 and recently told my husband about some fantasies. I have had these thoughts/dreams for years, but just repressed them I guess. Now it is coming so fast though. It started with me renting girl/girl porn, now I want to go to a strip club. My husband has been more than supporting, and he has certainly benefited. Six months ago there is no way I'd be picturing me and him picking out movies lol. Now I feel greedy and want two women, but I know I need to take it slow...I'm looking forward to following this thread!
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First and foremost ......... Welcome to LIT !!! Your hubby and I have known one another for quite some time and he had mentioned on my thread how his wife was becoming " curious " which of course is a very , very good thing
!!! As for me ........... I had never thought about even kissing another woman ummmmm until I got on LIT and now I've been sooo sooo curious for months now !!! Though it's not easy to actually meet someone who is also " curious " but I'm certainly always keeping my eyes open
never know !!??Strips clubs have been our favorite hangout for many years, although much less lately. The laws in our city changed. Now the dancers have to wear pasties. And stand no closer than, like, five feet away. It's hardly as much fun now.
When we used to go, I was surprised by the number of dancers who loved to dance for married gals like me. They'd really put on a show and even pay special attention, rubbing their tits against my face, for example. It was hot.
We used to be on a first-name basis with some of the dancers, so much so that they'd sit at our table between sets. We'd chat, smoke with them, and swap stories. We never took a gal home. But that's okay. It was fun to just watch them...and have them watch me.
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When we used to go, I was surprised by the number of dancers who loved to dance for married gals like me. They'd really put on a show and even pay special attention, rubbing their tits against my face, for example. It was hot.
We used to be on a first-name basis with some of the dancers, so much so that they'd sit at our table between sets. We'd chat, smoke with them, and swap stories. We never took a gal home. But that's okay. It was fun to just watch them...and have them watch me.
HB
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Hi I am Sharon. Married with some experience with other women. My first was a number of years ago when a younger woman seduced me over time... I didnt see it at first, but now it's pretty obvious. And yes, I enjoyed our time together very much. Recently I have been forced back into the fantasy mode and reliving memories.
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Please tell?
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I saw your other message and was about to point you in this direction, but I see you found it. You'll find a lot of support, advice and err very interesting scenarios on this thread.
Would you to a strip joint with hubby? Has anyone done this? Personally I would be scared to go because it would be full of sleazy, learing guys who would start bothering me... not because I'm particularly attractive... but just for their own petty amusement.
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Just a fantasy
I have had the fantasy of being the younger girl since I was 16. I used to swim at my friends pool. Her mother was very attractive, yet shy and reserved. It seemed that she enjoyed watching me sunning my the pool but that was probably just my imagination. It triggered fantasies about being a tease (in a nice way) and slowly pushing her to the point that she confessed her hidden desire to kiss me and touch me and be tormented and teased and allowed to taste me and be orally submissive. There is a lot more detail but I have loved that fantasy for years.
I have had the fantasy of being the younger girl since I was 16. I used to swim at my friends pool. Her mother was very attractive, yet shy and reserved. It seemed that she enjoyed watching me sunning my the pool but that was probably just my imagination. It triggered fantasies about being a tease (in a nice way) and slowly pushing her to the point that she confessed her hidden desire to kiss me and touch me and be tormented and teased and allowed to taste me and be orally submissive. There is a lot more detail but I have loved that fantasy for years.
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I used to dance at several clubs, and let me tell you the women who came in with men and got lap dances tipped very well.
Mrs Indy
First and foremost ......... Welcome to LIT !!! Your hubby and I have known one another for quite some time and he had mentioned on my thread how his wife was becoming " curious " which of course is a very , very good thing
As for me ........... I had never thought about even kissing another woman ummmmm until I got on LIT and now I've been sooo sooo curious for months now !!! Though it's not easy to actually meet someone who is also " curious " but I'm certainly always keeping my eyes open
Well then I hope we BOTH find what we are looking for!!
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Sally, just a thought, I can see up your skirt. Maybe its because I am older, but you are asking for trouble exposing yourself, wink, wink
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Very "stacy's mom"
I too have dreamt of a similar tease with a friends mom... so exciting!
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I'm a 27 year old happily married woman that is interested in talking with other women. I'm 5 foot 7 with an athletic curvy body and curly red hair. Yes its real ladies
I love redheads!
I loved what you said about "unresolved fantasies" I think its so true. I really thought my husband would be more open to the idea of me with another woman. But I think he is actually afraid I will make an emotional connection with that person and he isnt ok with that. I took the advice of some of you on here and I have kept talking to him about it. But sometimes the fantasies really are too much. ya kno?
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when fantasy approaches obsession
There was a time when I looked at every older woman too intently. I wanted to see the curve of her breast which I imagined at my lips. Tongues, too. It became so distracting for me that I simply had to find an outlet. Erotica helped for a long time and calmed me. When you feel your fantasies taking hold of you, something has to snap.
There was a time when I looked at every older woman too intently. I wanted to see the curve of her breast which I imagined at my lips. Tongues, too. It became so distracting for me that I simply had to find an outlet. Erotica helped for a long time and calmed me. When you feel your fantasies taking hold of you, something has to snap.
