MasteringMaster
Virgin
- Joined
- Oct 6, 2017
- Posts
- 11
So I recently found myself my first submissive slave D) and had a few questions.
1) Collars: I would very much like to get my slave a collar, but I have no idea what the etiquette is, if there even is any official etiquette! Should it be adorned as a punishment or gift? She is very willing, after all. Is there a time frame that I should wait until? I don't know if it is improper to get her a collar immediately, or wait and make it special. Should it be customized to her or is a generic collar fine? Is customizing an individual collar improper because it creates a sense of uniqueness in a slave, which is against the principal of slaves? I am probably overthinking this, but I don't want to screw up.
2) Punishment: To be honest, she's a glutton for it. She intentionally gets an attitude so that I will punish her, then defies and struggles during punishment to make me punish her more. However, LET ME BE CLEAR: We established a safe-word and I have even stopped more than once because she legitimately sounded upset, but wasn't. Embarrassing, I know, but even though we are heavily enjoying a rape scenario, that does not mean I actually want to rape her. Maybe I'm just considered a weak master for that, but I don't care. I asked about hard limits and she has none. I need something that she will respond to, pronto. I will do ice water when she is especially rude and ignores me (Cold shoulder, i call it), but I do not frequently use it because you have to have supplies on hand, such as Epsom salt and a lot of ice. I am about to order a cattle prod and use it between her legs, to give an idea of where I'm at. She responds to some things, especially after extended sessions, but I need something that will work fast to produce quick results. An airsoft gun, maybe?
3) Aftercare: After a long session, I comfort her and hold her, but I need some good ideas, advice, and tips on aftercare. After ice treatment, I rinse her off and reward her with some hot chocolate/coffee, Pre-warmed clean clothes and socks, and a pre-warmed bed for a movie with Master. What works for you all?
Thanks for helping out a newbie!
-MasteringMaster
1) Collars: I would very much like to get my slave a collar, but I have no idea what the etiquette is, if there even is any official etiquette! Should it be adorned as a punishment or gift? She is very willing, after all. Is there a time frame that I should wait until? I don't know if it is improper to get her a collar immediately, or wait and make it special. Should it be customized to her or is a generic collar fine? Is customizing an individual collar improper because it creates a sense of uniqueness in a slave, which is against the principal of slaves? I am probably overthinking this, but I don't want to screw up.
2) Punishment: To be honest, she's a glutton for it. She intentionally gets an attitude so that I will punish her, then defies and struggles during punishment to make me punish her more. However, LET ME BE CLEAR: We established a safe-word and I have even stopped more than once because she legitimately sounded upset, but wasn't. Embarrassing, I know, but even though we are heavily enjoying a rape scenario, that does not mean I actually want to rape her. Maybe I'm just considered a weak master for that, but I don't care. I asked about hard limits and she has none. I need something that she will respond to, pronto. I will do ice water when she is especially rude and ignores me (Cold shoulder, i call it), but I do not frequently use it because you have to have supplies on hand, such as Epsom salt and a lot of ice. I am about to order a cattle prod and use it between her legs, to give an idea of where I'm at. She responds to some things, especially after extended sessions, but I need something that will work fast to produce quick results. An airsoft gun, maybe?
3) Aftercare: After a long session, I comfort her and hold her, but I need some good ideas, advice, and tips on aftercare. After ice treatment, I rinse her off and reward her with some hot chocolate/coffee, Pre-warmed clean clothes and socks, and a pre-warmed bed for a movie with Master. What works for you all?
Thanks for helping out a newbie!
-MasteringMaster