Do Straight Men Like To Be Fucked In Asshole, Either By Strap-on Or By Real Cock? And

I am a straight man who loves having a woman play with my ass, including penetration.
I have a wand that I love to use.
While I fantasize about strap-on play, the toy I picture is like an eros, and looks nothing like a dick.
The thought of using a dildo (looks like a dick) has no appeal to me.
 
Yes, and I think that wanting to have a cock in your ass sometimes does not make you gay at all. The major sexual preference has many facets, how you feel, to whom are you attracted. Wanting to be fucked in the ass with a cock is just a small part of that. I mean I totally love all aspects of women, and I'm a slave to pussy, but I still think that I would like to have a cock in my ass one day. Soon I will get a butt plug to start to get myself ready. :)

When a teenager (40 years ago) and getting a physical, in order to play on the lacrosse team, I discovered the pleasure of having my prostate stimulated. I discovered a new activity to include when masturbating.

In my first marraige I convinced my wife that if it was normal for me to partake in her anus it was normal for her to do the same to me. And so we did. My first wife and I viewed quite a bit of porn including bi, gay and lesbian. These movies got me thinking about experiencing a real cock but my wife was hesitant about having another man, or couple, join us.

At the age of 31 I was single and ready to explore. I answered several of the adult ads in the local paper and found the single guys too self-centered and not very personable. The married (M/F) couples were quite the opposite and I quickly met someone likeminded. Along with anal intercourse we also gave each other BJs. The lady not only enjoyed watching but also partook in the activities. The same went for several of the ladies I dated. Now I am married, again, and my is of like mind (we both enjoy bi sex) and we frequently get togheter with other practicing couples. Everybody eats pussy, sucks cock and gets their ass fucked (to be so blunt). Are any of us men gay? Are any of the ladies lesbians? I think not. We simply enjoy ourselves and each other. :D

To each his own.
 
I have to agree with velvetdArkness. If i girl is giving it to a guy in the ass, hes still having sex with a woman. How is he gay? Its where our g spot is. Guys are so uptight and closeminded. I love taking it in the ass. its a great mindblowing orgasm. And im not gay. I love women. Im just open, and informed. and comfortable with I like. And nothing like taking it in the ass wearing a nice pair of heels. i love pumps.
 
Sexual orientation is about what sex or gender you're attracted to (attracted to the whole person and not just their bits).

Anal play is about a part of our anatomy that for many men and women feels good when we stimulate it, whether with tongues, fingers, or toys. It can also be exciting because on some level it's still a bit taboo, and there may be elements of domination and submission involved, or other fantasies.

The two- sexual orientation and anal play- have nothing to do with one another. To say they do makes about much sense as saying a man must gay if he jerks himself off.

I also believe that a straight man can want to play with a cock (including getting fucked by a real one) and still be straight. Just like a gay man can enjoy sexual activity with a woman and still be gay. Sex is just sex- it's about playing and experimenting and indulging in what we find interesting at the time and doing what feels good.

As a girl, I love lesbian porn, fantasize about women, and have enjoyed sex with other girls- but I don't feel attracted to women in my day to day life, and I have no desire for a same sex relationship because I'm straight. I identify as straight, I've always felt straight, my relationships are always with the opposite sex, etc. etc.

I don't see why the same can't be true for a man.
 
if it feels good, it really doesn't matter what the label is... but a piece of plastic being used for pleasure on a guy... with a woman... most certainly not gay. the guys that are hell bent on not having prostate play are missing out.

as far as a real cock... cocks come in many shapes, sizes, and are attached to many different things i.e. sometimes women... a lot of very straight guys only want cock if it is attached to a very passable, feminine, CD or shemale (sorry if shemale isn't politically correct, not trying to offend anybody)

best thing to do is communicate, I personally love sex and the kinkier my girlfriend is, the sexier it makes her. so just ask, if he is on the fence you have to have a night to take control ladies, be dominant... it will blow his mind, as everybody on this site in other threads, and on this one have pointed out... some of the best and hardest cums of their life.
 
This thread is for men who are straight and women who have experience with straight men. Please, share your experience and fantasy with us and tell us if the straight men may like to be fucked in asshole

This straigh-enough man likes it....I certainly would like the Mrs. too strap one on and have a go. When I took the 'real thing' I liked it.
 
My husband is straight. While we were separated, he tried stuff out with guys because he thought he might've been bisexual but he said he didn't enjoy sex with men as much as sex with women who'd use a strap-on with him. So, yes, straight men can enjoy anal sex. That's like asking if a straight woman can enjoy having a dildo used on them. Lol. Straight, Bisexual, whatever...people enjoy a full range of sexual experiences.
 
I've thought about being fucked my a strap-on once.. even dreamt that my friend fucked me once. So hot.
 
I've never had it done but I definitely wouldnt mind a woman playing with my ass, and I would probably enjoy her using a strap-on.
 
My husband is straight. While we were separated, he tried stuff out with guys because he thought he might've been bisexual but he said he didn't enjoy sex with men as much as sex with women who'd use a strap-on with him. So, yes, straight men can enjoy anal sex. That's like asking if a straight woman can enjoy having a dildo used on them. Lol. Straight, Bisexual, whatever...people enjoy a full range of sexual experiences.

Totally agree
 
Sexual orientation is about what sex or gender you're attracted to (attracted to the whole person and not just their bits).

Anal play is about a part of our anatomy that for many men and women feels good when we stimulate it, whether with tongues, fingers, or toys. It can also be exciting because on some level it's still a bit taboo, and there may be elements of domination and submission involved, or other fantasies.

The two- sexual orientation and anal play- have nothing to do with one another. To say they do makes about much sense as saying a man must gay if he jerks himself off.

I also believe that a straight man can want to play with a cock (including getting fucked by a real one) and still be straight. Just like a gay man can enjoy sexual activity with a woman and still be gay. Sex is just sex- it's about playing and experimenting and indulging in what we find interesting at the time and doing what feels good.


As a girl, I love lesbian porn, fantasize about women, and have enjoyed sex with other girls- but I don't feel attracted to women in my day to day life, and I have no desire for a same sex relationship because I'm straight. I identify as straight, I've always felt straight, my relationships are always with the opposite sex, etc. etc.

I don't see why the same can't be true for a man.

like your open mind
 
I thin k its very much a double standard, but I fall under the theory that its a bit different for a woman to fantasize about the opposite sex than it is for a man.

I think women can experiment, men its point of no return.

And I strongly disagree with a lot of people here who say every man has thoughts of other men at some point or another.

Its big here because of the forums here being friendly to bi-sexual behavior.

The majotiy of men out there want nothing to do with the "exit only"
 
like your open mind

Aw, thank you :rose:

I thin k its very much a double standard, but I fall under the theory that its a bit different for a woman to fantasize about the opposite sex than it is for a man.

I think women can experiment, men its point of no return.

And I strongly disagree with a lot of people here who say every man has thoughts of other men at some point or another.

Its big here because of the forums here being friendly to bi-sexual behavior.

The majotiy of men out there want nothing to do with the "exit only"

I really have no idea what the majority of men think or want, but you are right that there's more open discussion about it here. The same could be said for BDSM and a whole host of other kinks and sexual behaviour. That's the point, after all- this is a space for people to share and discuss sexual things that are inappropriate to bring up around the watercooler at work.

I don't quite understand your comment about the point of no return, though. A fantasy or activity isn't going to change someone's fundamental sexuality and orientation.
 
St8te Me Bein' Fucked

Fucking a straight guy with a strap-on is one of my fantasies, I don't know what it is but I think my dominant side is flipping the situation around. That's as much as I can predict anyway.\

But god yes, and I love to watch both those two options, a straight guy and a strap-on or even better another guy.

Mmmmmm

Hey, I never knew that so many straight men secretly desired by fucked in their asses. I always got the impression that men who fantasize about that type of thing are closetly gay - until I got turned on to that type of thing myself. Nowadays, one of my newest fantasies is to be fucked by a goth dominatrix who uses a strap-on dildo , not a real dick. Much of it has to do with the fact that I would like to fully understand what a woman feels while being fucked by a woman though, not a man. I am simply not attracted to other men enough to one to be fucked by one; as a (reasonably) straight man myself, I can't really picture myself chasing after something that I already have.
 
Love it

This thread is for men who are straight and women who have experience with straight men. Please, share your experience and fantasy with us and tell us if the straight men may like to be fucked in asshole

I'm a straight man and I find it very arousing when a women fucks me in the asshole. The idea of her controlling me that way just drives me crazy. To me, this is one of the most definitive forms of domination. Just being butt fucked to the point you want it to stop but you continue is just a great feeling.
 
Never tried it but...

It sounds hot and I like reading about it on here.
 
I was having a talk with some co-workers regarding this topic.... The general concensus was that if you take it up the ass, you're gay. It could be a strap on, a bowling pin, or a giant cock.

If you take it up the ass, you're gay! THAT is where the line is drawn.

Glad I could shed some light on this topic.

2nd:
Why men have such a huge hang up about receiving anal when they spend countless hours persuading their women to take it up the ass, I'll never understand.

Because it feels fuckin amazing!! It's totally worth the finely tuned persuasion abilities and bar tab. :)
 
I love having my wife do me in the butt with a strap-on. We are both fairly anal-centric with our sex. She doesn't suit up all that often, but when I am in the mood to feel utterly dominated - we dig into the toy box.

I agree completely with those who said anal sex has nothing to do with being gay or straight.

Oh - and nice message board. I think this is my first post here.
 
I was having a talk with some co-workers regarding this topic.... The general concensus was that if you take it up the ass, you're gay. It could be a strap on, a bowling pin, or a giant cock.

If you take it up the ass, you're gay! THAT is where the line is drawn.

What an incredibly narrow minded load of manure. The sexual activity a person enjoys has little to do with sexual orientation.
 
I was having a talk with some co-workers regarding this topic.... The general concensus was that if you take it up the ass, you're gay. It could be a strap on, a bowling pin, or a giant cock.

If you take it up the ass, you're gay! THAT is where the line is drawn.

Glad I could shed some light on this topic.

2nd:


Because it feels fuckin amazing!! It's totally worth the finely tuned persuasion abilities and bar tab. :)


According to this definition I am gay because I enjoy anal sex? Damn. I thought I was straight for all these years!
 
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