Hello, I'm Vendelle from the Netherlands. I'm 33 and while I've been reading stories on Lit for a while now, this is the first time I really check out this message board. I have little to no experience with BDSM at all, but I find it very intriguing and some of the stories out there really strike a nerve. I'm basically still searching and trying to find out where I stand with regards to BDSM. I feel I might be a submissive, but I'm still so new that I don't really know which form I'd like this to take. I'll be reading mostly and replying only if I feel I have something new to add, but I thought I'd introduce myself already so that you'll know who'll be lurking in the corner.