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I have often wondered how many women really like to be taken forcefully with the man in control.
My wife is not normally into S/M or anything like it, but sometimes I take her quite forcefully holding her hands over her head while fucking her and sucking and biting her tits and when she sits on top of me I grab her hips and ass very hard and force her down on my cock - and when we have done this she says afterwards that it was really good to be taken like that and to be without control.
Ihave had a similar experience with an earlier girlfriend, who normally liked it very gentle and soft, but sometimes got off really hard when I took command.
I would like to hear from both men and women your experiences and whether or not this would be an indication of her wanting more in that direction - and how I go about it - your help will be appreciated.
You can either send me a private message or give your opinion here - Thanks!
When a guy is with me, I have pretty much told him that he can do whatever he wants, but is not allowed to punch or kick or leave cuts or bruises or inflict harsh pain, otherwise it becomes kind of assault. But role playing is fun, take me by surprise, blind fold me handcuff me,gag me, warn me not to scream, tell me I am to do as my told, without questioning, and I will be rewarded, tie me up and then hey let the games begin. Being taken in a rough but playful way has to be consensual, & both or more parties be willing participants. If your wife likes it then have a set of rules that must be adhered to.To be held down, called filthy names & even have more than one man take me in any way he wants is super cool.
interesting thread. I worry a bit sometimes about this kink of mine, as I am not sexist or mysoginistic in any way, but male dom does turn me on.
I bought her cheap clothes, dressed like a slut, she liked me to treat her like one, I would rip the blouse open, throw her on the bed and just fuck her as hard as I could, while pulling her hair and calling her a bitch, slut, whore etc
I called her a fucking cock teasing fucking bitch, ripped the dress to shreds, threw her on the bed, and piled into her like a wild animal on heat, the two of us turning the air blue with the filthy language we shouted at each other!!!
Happy memories
I highly enjoy being taken roughly. Having a guy take full control of my body and to do with what he pleases, there's something so erotic about that. While we're fucking I expect to be treated like I'm his play thing, there for his pleasure and he can do whatever he pleases, he can slap me, bite me, spank and choke me, forcefully thrust into me and just simply fuck me silly, but once we're both done and satisfied I want to be cuddled and held and taken care of. It's the aftercare that makes me feel like I've pleased him and in return that brings me pleasure. Interesting how the mind works around that.
When a guy is with me, I have pretty much told him that he can do whatever he wants, but is not allowed to punch or kick or leave cuts or bruises or inflict harsh pain, otherwise it becomes kind of assault. But role playing is fun, take me by surprise, blind fold me handcuff me,gag me, warn me not to scream, tell me I am to do as my told, without questioning, and I will be rewarded, tie me up and then hey let the games begin. Being taken in a rough but playful way has to be consensual, & both or more parties be willing participants. If your wife likes it then have a set of rules that must be adhered to.To be held down, called filthy names & even have more than one man take me in any way he wants is super cool.
I think for me it comes down to confidence, whether he's being rough or just forceful, taking away my decisions. A man having enough confidence and knowing what he's doing is just a huge turn on.
Reason I take issue with the title is because I'm a guy and like it forced. Love it even.
But the main reason is that it's only going to further put in the "It's only women" mindset. Yes it happens more with them but titles like this don't even consider the other side of the fence. Women like being forceful too.
Congrats.
And I’m not interested in men who like to be forced, being a woman and a sub.
Enjoy it.
Which applies just as much in my thread as it does this one. If you didn't want another thread on the matter then why make the suggestion of making one? I think you're simply making excuses and trolling just because you look down on the fact that I take issue with the title of the thread.
I suggested you make a thread that suits your needs, since you had issues with the existing thread. You then assumed I cared whether you did or not. I don’t.
Even this post isn't for you alone. I simply wanted to emphasise "All genders matter". It's easy to say you don't care when you're "in the group". But try saying it when you're not. Would you prefer 100 snowflake threads or one that lets everyone discuss the topic?
I think my advice is it is about communication and understanding. Each woman is different in how she displays her interest for being forced. I try to be observant and as time goes on I pick up on things that let me know she wants more of being controlled. Of course the easiest way is just a frank discussion about fantasies and interests but I know most of us are afraid to go there.
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I had a relationship with a wonderful lady after my divorce, who in regular life was strong and independent. Gradually, a very submissive side came out, and brought out in me a very dominate side. She was highly orgasmic to start with, so that wasn't the point of submission -- it was the feeling itself of submitting to me sexually. It wasn't there all the time, but little things at the right moment, like holding her down on a table, would send that shiver up submission up her spine (but not limited to little things -- we did do longer submission sessions involving restraints and nipple clamps and other things and toys, use your imagination). We were very close and talked allot, so I really learned what she was feeling when she felt submissive, and I became intuitive in knowing when and how to set her off. It was great fun. I recommend it to all as part of your sexual diet.
I agree... and think being forceful/confident about what you want can start with that frank discussion. I would be more willing to share my interests/fantasies with someone who I don’t think I can scare off or intimidate. (Especially if that someone won’t let me weasel out of sharing in the first place... there are lots of places ‘force’ can be applied.) And if someone could confidently lead the discussion and then make those fantasies happen.... yes please. ;-)