When I was 22 I had an experience with a t-girl, while I was travelling in asia. Basically the ultimate "Shit, did that really happen last night?" morning hangover.
I had never had feelings about another guy prior to that and I completely shocked myself. I had the excuse of initially not realising she was a he but I couldnt escape the fact that I'd loved it.
But I was still in a sort of denial for a while, thinking of it as a one off. "I'm still basically straight but isnt it great that I'm open minded enough to have done that?" That was how I explained it to myself.
But from that point onward I began looking at guys in a slightly different way. I still was more likely to check out a girl on the street but I began finding guys attractive, and wondering.
So a few years after that I took the plunge and met up with a guy from online. After I slept with him I was a bit more sure that I was bisexual.
I slept with a couple more, just to make sure.
I had never had feelings about another guy prior to that and I completely shocked myself. I had the excuse of initially not realising she was a he but I couldnt escape the fact that I'd loved it.
But I was still in a sort of denial for a while, thinking of it as a one off. "I'm still basically straight but isnt it great that I'm open minded enough to have done that?" That was how I explained it to myself.
But from that point onward I began looking at guys in a slightly different way. I still was more likely to check out a girl on the street but I began finding guys attractive, and wondering.
So a few years after that I took the plunge and met up with a guy from online. After I slept with him I was a bit more sure that I was bisexual.
I slept with a couple more, just to make sure.