I'm not new to bdsm, I'm switch, but tonight I was roughhousing with my bf/dom and I completely freaked the F out. He was restraining me and biting on me. These are things I love, but when he used a wrestling technique on me, that can black you out, I freaked out. I started crying, and yelling for him to stop. I have never had a reaction like this. I love the things he was doing, and he stopped as soon as I said to. I can tell that my reaction freaked him out too. I need insight.