Leashes in the Bedroom

KashAlmighty5

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Any subs enjoy being on a leash in the bedroom ... before or during sex or anything..just wondering saw some porn with woman crawling on a leash..was wondering if any women were actually into that kind of thing in real life
 
It doesn't do much for me personally on its own. But I'm recently into hardcore pet-play in general, and if I can tie her down to force her to crawl on all fours, and put a leash on her, this suddenly becomes much more fun =)
 
I can say that almost all of my male subs have enjoyed being leashed, in or out of the bedroom.
 
Leashed at parties. Once at halloween. Never tried it in the bedroom though.
 
The whole point is to train her to want the leash, not force her.
 
The whole point is to train her to want the leash, not force her.

Haha, like all everyone can be trained!

I love being leashed but it doesn’t happen often as I struggle with the compliance nesessary to make leashing work. I do have a wee fantasy involving a torso harness that would make standing from crawl position impossible but I have no idea if the physics or engineering are possible...
 
Haha, like all everyone can be trained!

I love being leashed but it doesn’t happen often as I struggle with the compliance nesessary to make leashing work. I do have a wee fantasy involving a torso harness that would make standing from crawl position impossible but I have no idea if the physics or engineering are possible...

If you have the right Dom for you, you can be trained.
My post was a reaction to Nezhul.


And I like your harness idea.
 
If you have the right Dom for you, you can be trained.
My post was a reaction to Nezhul.


And I like your harness idea.

I don’t know about that - I enjoy the fight just as much as I enjoy the humiliation of submission. I’m not saying submission is inherently humiliating but just that I personally find submitting hits my humiliation buttons but not as hard as being forced to submit does (probably coz I’m just too goddamned proud). Training is work too, which my life already has more than enough of - I am a masochist but not to that extent!

What I’m trying to say is there is no point in talking about anything in absolutes when it comes to BDSM or sex for that matter, with the exception of safety and consent. The only point of any of this is personal satisfaction, and that looks different to everyone.
 
Any subs enjoy being on a leash in the bedroom ... before or during sex or anything..just wondering saw some porn with woman crawling on a leash..was wondering if any women were actually into that kind of thing in real life

Yes, very much. I've only used it in the bedroom, though.
 
I don’t know about that - I enjoy the fight just as much as I enjoy the humiliation of submission. I’m not saying submission is inherently humiliating but just that I personally find submitting hits my humiliation buttons but not as hard as being forced to submit does (probably coz I’m just too goddamned proud). Training is work too, which my life already has more than enough of - I am a masochist but not to that extent!

What I’m trying to say is there is no point in talking about anything in absolutes when it comes to BDSM or sex for that matter, with the exception of safety and consent. The only point of any of this is personal satisfaction, and that looks different to everyone.

That’s true. :D

Because I love the snap of the leash so much, I can’t imagine fighting it. If I fought, it would be a real fight. And that travels into different territory.
 
I enjoy them a lot. Even as submissive as I am, theres something about the click of a collar and leash around my neck that completely tames me to whoever I'm submitting to.
 
I love being leashed!!!!! specially when its pulled on really hard to the point of choking......
 
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There's a lot to like about collars and leashes. They're so ... decadent, indulgent.
 
I enjoy them a lot. Even as submissive as I am, theres something about the click of a collar and leash around my neck that completely tames me to whoever I'm submitting to.

As a switch I recently discovered that I enjoy similar. Mistress asked me to perform edging tasks when uncaged. Naked, and apply a rope leash with simple slipknot around my neck.


In doing so I discovered that simply preparing, and putting the leash on had three effects at once; harder than I can ever recall, massively submissive, I found myself yearning to kneel and have it held firmly.

Repeated several times over a week to ensure it wasn't a one-time horn. And sure enough, every time I picked it up, to put on... Solid as a rock and totally submissive.

My O when allowed to, while wearing it, was immense also.
 
I don't think I would dare stay with a Mistress who would tolerate a slip knot around my neck, whatever their reasoning.

Other than that; jelly.

But then leashes have been a fetish for me for as long as I can remember. Honestly, I like rope, but simple rope for a collar seems like a disappointingly missed opportunity for leather.

(Horse tac enthusiast too.)



It was impromptu and improvised.
 
Didn't mean to kink shame you there.

Apart obvious link with erotic asphixiation (a bonkers fetish but still valid IMO if done safely), I meant to imply that for me personally there would also be a range of mental health complications associated with putting something so dangerous around my neck specifically, all other usages and risks aside.

I'm all for improvised kink BTW.

If you are interested in keeping a simple rope practice, maybe consider some slightly safer knots.

The bowline comes to mind; it's preferred for certain uses by search and rescue and the coast guard because a properly tied bowline cannot slip and is very unlikely to be untied by accident.

For added panache, there is a technique for tying one around your waste one handed (don't know if that can be translated for the neck or not, but definitely practice first)

It was the aesthetic she found hot, it wasn't tight.
 
My Subby loves it. For her it’s an outward sign of her transferring all control to me
 
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