What Does Beint Turned on By Cock Mean

Cape1

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Hello,

I'm new here and I just have a question. I am married, I identify myself as hetrosexual, I love my wife, she turns me on, I love having sex with her, She is gorgeous, just looking at her boobs makes my cock hard.

ON the other side, I enjoy and get off on Gay porn. Mostly just BJ stuff. I was abused as a kid (cousin made me suck his cock a few times). Since then, it's been like a fetish. I've done it a few times but it made be feel sick. But still, I get off wathing stuff.

Are any of you guys in this situation? What is the deal with this? Am I bi or did what happened to me program me to take some kind of liking to the other side.

I'm comfortable with it now and have decided that I'm following the straight path as it just makes the most sense to be. I'm just curious if anyone else is in this boat.
 
Married 28 years just enjoy sucking cock watching it squirt cum. Dont consider myself" bi".
 
Hello,

I'm new here and I just have a question. I am married, I identify myself as hetrosexual, I love my wife, she turns me on, I love having sex with her, She is gorgeous, just looking at her boobs makes my cock hard.

ON the other side, I enjoy and get off on Gay porn. Mostly just BJ stuff. I was abused as a kid (cousin made me suck his cock a few times). Since then, it's been like a fetish. I've done it a few times but it made be feel sick. But still, I get off wathing stuff.

Are any of you guys in this situation? What is the deal with this? Am I bi or did what happened to me program me to take some kind of liking to the other side.

I'm comfortable with it now and have decided that I'm following the straight path as it just makes the most sense to be. I'm just curious if anyone else is in this boat.

Lots of men and women both have a tendency to masturbate to fantasies that they may or may not ever actually experience for real. For many of us that may mean Bi or gay fantasies. As you get older you also tend to be more open to the idea of acting upon these fantasies.

We'll see what others have to say.

Welcome to Lit :)
 
Married 28 years just enjoy sucking cock watching it squirt cum. Dont consider myself" bi".

So do you find dudes attractive sexually? See, I don't. If I'm out at a bar, I wouldnt even look at a guy. But this whole oral thing gets to me for some reason. Sounds like you're probably on the same page.
 
Well said, Couldn't agree more, The older I have become, The more I have expressed my Bi/Gay'ness


Lots of men and women both have a tendency to masturbate to fantasies that they may or may not ever actually experience for real. For many of us that may mean Bi or gay fantasies. As you get older you also tend to be more open to the idea of acting upon these fantasies.

We'll see what others have to say.

Welcome to Lit :)
 
Well said, Couldn't agree more, The older I have become, The more I have expressed my Bi/Gay'ness

But what I wonder is why wouldn't I just go out and meet some Gay dude and do a date like I would with a female. Why is it only oral porn that appeals to me but when the real-life opportunity is there Im just not into it? Just doesn't make allot of sense to me.
 
Lots of men and women both have a tendency to masturbate to fantasies that they may or may not ever actually experience for real. For many of us that may mean Bi or gay fantasies. As you get older you also tend to be more open to the idea of acting upon these fantasies.

We'll see what others have to say.

Welcome to Lit :)

Thanks for the welcome! Just trying to figure shit out I guess.
 
Take the opposite of what being turned on by pussy is, and you have your answer.
 
I dont look at men as being hot or sexy i dont pick them up i just want to suck cock either 1 on 1 or as a 3 sum with their spouse.
 
Cape,
There are lots of guys who would love to have their cocks stroked and sucked and not cuddle, kiss and otherwise be romantic with another man. You just need to set up one of those blow-and-go things to work it all out.
 
There are a lot of us

From spending a whole lot of time on this and other sites like this one. I have come to the conclusion that there are a lot of guys that feel the same way you do. I know I do. My first sexual experience was with another boy when we were kids. I have always wanted to suck cock my whole life, but was never attracted to other guys, just cock, and just to sucking cock. I finally got to suck another cock when I was in my mid twenties, and I like it, and would like to do it again. But when I'm around another guy, the attraction is just not there. I guess it just has to be the right circumstances.
 
THanks to those of you who replied. Yeah, I'm not going to set up any blow and go or shit like that. I've decided to be faithful and it's not that much a distraction either way. There was once a thread on this site where people talked more about it and it was very insightful, particularly with respect to early childhood abuse etc. i may just be on the wrong forum but I couldn't find it. Either way thanks for the insights.
 
Hello,

I'm new here and I just have a question. I am married, I identify myself as hetrosexual, I love my wife, she turns me on, I love having sex with her, She is gorgeous, just looking at her boobs makes my cock hard.

ON the other side, I enjoy and get off on Gay porn. Mostly just BJ stuff. I was abused as a kid (cousin made me suck his cock a few times). Since then, it's been like a fetish. I've done it a few times but it made be feel sick. But still, I get off wathing stuff.

Are any of you guys in this situation? What is the deal with this? Am I bi or did what happened to me program me to take some kind of liking to the other side.

I'm comfortable with it now and have decided that I'm following the straight path as it just makes the most sense to be. I'm just curious if anyone else is in this boat.

We are plenty in number. You aren't alone. Check out this thread
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1107507
 
But what I wonder is why wouldn't I just go out and meet some Gay dude and do a date like I would with a female. Why is it only oral porn that appeals to me but when the real-life opportunity is there Im just not into it? Just doesn't make allot of sense to me.

I think it's just a natural crazy part of being human. Hard to explain but it's there. I'm with you. The real life aspect of it does nothing for me. In fact when I'm not horny in front of my computer or in bed with my wife it does nothing for me either. Just fantasy i gues.s
 
I was at lunch today A few men and women were there. I think about sucking cock but honestly I do not find men sexy. Women are beautiful to me and I look at them and wish I was dressed sitting across from them chatting and holding their hand


Cock is nice but women rule
 
Kinsey's survey found what he classified as various levels of bi-ness. For me, well I have been with about 75 women, but only about 30 men. I have no desire to move in with, marry, have a relatioship with a man. i don't particularly get off on kissing a man, will do it only to enhance the overall experience, I have fucked a few guys, but never been fucked.. Mostly I just love to suck cock.. BUT I have been married to the same woman for 33 years and have been faithful. Now I just masturbate to fantasies (and write them). Nonetheless, I would say that to some degree(and there are a lot of different degrees), I am still bisexual.
 
I was at lunch today A few men and women were there. I think about sucking cock but honestly I do not find men sexy. Women are beautiful to me and I look at them and wish I was dressed sitting across from them chatting and holding their hand


Cock is nice but women rule

This.
 
Cock is nice but women rule

Which explains the allure of trans girls and pretty, femenine cross dressers. The fem boy pic thread is popular because the OP is far from alone. Stick a pretty boy in suspenders and lippy and I count myself as bi - but I wouldn't if all men were hairy arsed biker types like me.

Stream of consciousness explanation...

But hey, labels suck, we like what we like.
 
I'm turned on by cocks, but mostly on masculine men. I love the occasional femboy or trannny too, but really get off on men. To each their own.
 
More is Better!

It just means you have more things or more people to get off on, to or with...which in my mind is a good thing. So whether you are a masturbator or a 'fucker' or a 'fuckee', attraction to dick increases your chances.of getting off!
 
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