bisexual fuck buddies

Why is it so difficult to find a bisexual fuck buddy in real life, from the submissions on here, it would seem that 75% of married men are bisexual or curious but finding one is like looking for rocking horse poop.

flyingtinopener said:

Why is it so difficult to find a bisexual fuck buddy in real life, from the submissions on here, it would seem that 75% of married men are bisexual or curious but finding one is like looking for rocking horse poop.

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Interesting comparison.

flyingtinopener said:

Why is it so difficult to find a bisexual fuck buddy in real life, from the submissions on here, it would seem that 75% of married men are bisexual or curious but finding one is like looking for rocking horse poop.

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Guess a lot of guys fantasize about it. But reality brings many more issue into play. If it is to be....I guess it will happen. Patience grasshoppah! LOL

I have a fuck buddy who lives not very far from me and we try to get together as often as we can. We're both married so it's not as often as we'd like. We're actually SUCK buddies and I exclusively give him blowjobs with no reciprocation from him. He provides the cock and the cum and I contribute my mouth and my throat. Recently he has told a few of his friends about our "arrangement" and has offered them the use of "his cocksucker"!! I've already sucked off five of his friends. I like being shared and "passed around". It makes me feel like such a slut!! I LOVE it!!

I have an arrangement like Sterculius. I have a regular suck buddy that is married. His wife doesn't like sucking dick yet he likes having his sucked. Years ago my then g/f introduced me to sucking cock and brought in ex to join us. She got off on the occasional cuck fantasy and she kept me happy so I didn't mind that he never reciprocated. Sadly she moved away but her ex called me one day and asked if i was still interested in sucking his dick. I said why not? So, since I don't work on Monday and his wife does, I can say with almost certainty, he will stop by at least every other Monday. We will chat a bit and then he will stand up and get naked. Depending on his mood, he will lay back and let me suck his dick or he will tell me to get on my knees and he will just fuck my mouth in one position after another. Both are fine with me and either way I know he expects me to swallow every drop of his cum.

flyingtinopener said:

Why is it so difficult to find a bisexual fuck buddy in real life, from the submissions on here, it would seem that 75% of married men are bisexual or curious but finding one is like looking for rocking horse poop.

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Did it occur to you that maybe more people are still in the closet within their real lives. (To clarify, I am not. I came out to my close friends in high school, and then over the years to others who entered my life. And though I never directly did so with my family, I've jokingly said that with all of my postings and LIKED pages on Facebook I've come out of both my bisexual closet and my Wiccan one.)

Believe it or not, it's easier to be honest with complete strangers. I could be your next door neighbor, your doctor (assuming you have a female one), your child's teacher (again, assuming you have children), or even your cousin. Et cetera, et cetera. Or, more likely, I am just one of a million strangers here on the Net coming to Literotica for (possibly) similar interests. You don't know me and I don't know you. If we choose to judge one another we are doing so purely on any prejudges we may have and nothing more. (It would be like saying, "My neighbor is such an ass. He's rude to me, keeps a messy yard, and scares many of the other neighbors around here. He's __insert whatever characteristics one wishes__." and then one day you and I butt-heads here so I say you are such an ass. Maybe you are. Maybe you aren't. shrugs* Not my place to judge.

Though I am bisexual, I know I have gaydar. I've been able to "spot" people and/or have "a hunch" about someone and have been proven correct. That doesn't mean I've gone up to them and said "I know you're bi!" or "I know you're gay!" So, this is the other side of the coin. Other bisexuals who may be floating around your world may not want to assume someone else (IE: you!) is bi or gay so they never approach you and ask. It's my opinion that unless you're in a gay bar it is "harder" (scarier, more complicated, etc.) to hit on someone of the same sex.

I found my fuck buddy completely by accident. We were both members of the same gym and he caught me checking him out in the communal shower on a few occasions. Then he let me watch as he played with his cock until I joined in . If we had been caught we would've been barred but it was very quiet and we got away with it. After that we met up and got to know each other. We 're both married but he and his wife used to be swingers. She knows all about me and she has a regular girlfriend. My wife doesn't know but after a couple of years me and mike are more like boyfriends and see each other as often as possible. His wife often jokes that I et more of his cum than she does.

That's why we're hear.....Chatting about it is most likely as close as we will get... You could check out the personals threads, and IF you're serious, and you want a regular Bi-buddy....you could try Adam 4 Adam...or a million other sites...

I have used a4a. You would be amazed at the number of gay/bi men that live close to you. It's like a dick buffet.

Fuck buddies cum in all sizes!!

Around 16 years ago, I had no clue that I was bi. I had had a MFM threesome with a Army Ranger friend and his wife and never had any desire to do anything with him, although I found out later that he was pissed off that it didn't. Two years later I had a MMF threesome with my best friend and his BBW wife. He had been riding her about doing another woman and she just flat out told him she wasn't eating another woman's pussy until he sucked some cock. BAM! All three of us ended up in their bedroom. I since moved out of that state and have been trying to find another bi buddy ever since..PATIENCE is a virtue...It'll happen eventually....

Yeah, it does seem that there's a huge cohort of men who want to fuck each other, but the telling words of most CL posts are "cannot host."

pcarp said:

I have an arrangement like Sterculius. I have a regular suck buddy that is married. His wife doesn't like sucking dick yet he likes having his sucked. Years ago my then g/f introduced me to sucking cock and brought in ex to join us. She got off on the occasional cuck fantasy and she kept me happy so I didn't mind that he never reciprocated. Sadly she moved away but her ex called me one day and asked if i was still interested in sucking his dick. I said why not? So, since I don't work on Monday and his wife does, I can say with almost certainty, he will stop by at least every other Monday. We will chat a bit and then he will stand up and get naked. Depending on his mood, he will lay back and let me suck his dick or he will tell me to get on my knees and he will just fuck my mouth in one position after another. Both are fine with me and either way I know he expects me to swallow every drop of his cum.

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I'm envious! I'd love a regular suck/fuck buddy. I amazed at how many girls don't like blowing their man , or like anal. I'd love to find a partner to offer to fulfill that role!

I also have an arrangement with a married friend. We get together about once a month and roll around in bed together, making out and sucking cock. He cums in a major way!! Love it!! Anyway, I enjoy sucking even more than being sucked, so, it works for both of us.

kalalau said:

I also have an arrangement with a married friend. We get together about once a month and roll around in bed together, making out and sucking cock. He cums in a major way!! Love it!! Anyway, I enjoy sucking even more than being sucked, so, it works for both of us.

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Mmmmmm......I'd like to find someone like you close bi... HOT!

Me too. A fuck and suck buddy or better yet buddies would be nice, especially since I've never had one. As a married guy, it would be a great way to mix things up. I've looked on CL. Maybe I'll look on Adam4adam. I live near NYC so I probable have more options than I realize.

No-tell Motel ?

jackielicker said:

Yeah, it does seem that there's a huge cohort of men who want to fuck each other, but the telling words of most CL posts are "cannot host."

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While I can't state that they're all clean and sleaze free, I've frequented a few over the years that have been pretty tidy. In a pinch a holiday inn will do.

If you're prepared to cheat on your wife, what's $60 room for a couple of hours of discrete fun?

BiMWM31791 said:

Around 16 years ago, I had no clue that I was bi. I had had a MFM threesome with a Army Ranger friend and his wife and never had any desire to do anything with him, although I found out later that he was pissed off that it didn't. Two years later I had a MMF threesome with my best friend and his BBW wife. He had been riding her about doing another woman and she just flat out told him she wasn't eating another woman's pussy until he sucked some cock. BAM! All three of us ended up in their bedroom. I since moved out of that state and have been trying to find another bi buddy ever since..PATIENCE is a virtue...It'll happen eventually....

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My feelings exactly. Safe, sane, drug free, non smoker, athletic, and sexy as hell. Oh...and not cocky and a ho! If I could find me...I'd fuck myself! LOL Where's that clone kit at?

bisex friend

Would love to hook up with hot blooded bisex man that want to have some good buddy fun!

flyingtinopener said:

Why is it so difficult to find a bisexual fuck buddy in real life

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Risk of STD's
Risk of getting caught if married.
Risk of getting "outed" if not "out."

Timing, location (yours, theirs or motel?)

Different desires? Both bottoms, one wants kissing, etc. If only it were so easy

And I think it fair to guess that the guys posting here are by definition not a random cross section if the married make population

I think you would be surprised how many men fantasize about sucking cock and would like to make the fantasy cum true. I wondered all my life till I found A4A and squirt.org. There are tons of local guys ready, willing and able. I have enjoyed about a dozen of them.

Stephan1515 said:

I think you would be surprised how many men fantasize about sucking cock and would like to make the fantasy cum true. I wondered all my life till I found A4A and squirt.org. There are tons of local guys ready, willing and able. I have enjoyed about a dozen of them.

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that is amazing so want to have dozens all at once

One of my best friends at college came out to me but insisted I kept it secret. Several times, when we were drunk, he gave me oral sex. After a couple of times I returned the favour, loved it. I never considered myself Bi or Gay at the time but was always up for giving and getting a blow job.

I've been with my wife (dating + married) for almost 12 years. About 7 years ago, I started to get a little bi sexual interest. More of a curiosity. My wife has no idea. It started with porn. I found I didn't enjoy a porn unless it was a porn that showed the guy penetrating the girl. Then, I began to really enjoy blowjob pics and videos. I realized that if I found a guy that met a certain set of criteria in my mind, I would love to just try things out. See what its like to touch another hot dick, , make a guy cum, find out what its like to have a dick in my mouth. My criteria was so ridiculous, any local guy I chatted with didn't match up.

Now, recently, I have bumped into a guy. A guy who meets all the criteria, right after I relegated it to an eternal fantasy. I want to try it out so much, but the thought that the fantasy could be realized scares me to death.

JoeyKicks said:

I've been with my wife (dating + married) for almost 12 years. About 7 years ago, I started to get a little bi sexual interest. More of a curiosity. My wife has no idea. It started with porn. I found I didn't enjoy a porn unless it was a porn that showed the guy penetrating the girl. Then, I began to really enjoy blowjob pics and videos. I realized that if I found a guy that met a certain set of criteria in my mind, I would love to just try things out. See what its like to touch another hot dick, , make a guy cum, find out what its like to have a dick in my mouth. My criteria was so ridiculous, any local guy I chatted with didn't match up.

Now, recently, I have bumped into a guy. A guy who meets all the criteria, right after I relegated it to an eternal fantasy. I want to try it out so much, but the thought that the fantasy could be realized scares me to death.

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that is how I got into it