Hi all, as with most people on here I am a lurker but wanted to ask the advise of you sexperts on a matter that which is the topic of some frustration to myself and my girlfriend.
Firstly, we are both 25, healthy and very much in love! My girlfriend was the first girl I had ever been with at the ripe age of 23, she had sex once before me with her first boyfriend.. So basically we are still learning alot about sex, experimenting and having fun! More often or not however we will end up doing oral sex or indulge in mutual masturbation rather than intercourse.. The reason for his is that she often finds it painful as her vagina is very tight which feels great for me, but when you care so much about someone its hard to enjoy something that causes someone else pain. We often spend a good deal of time on foreplay, kissing, touching and so on and she always gets wet (To some degree) but even after foreplay we can't just jump into it, we need to use lube as without it I'm not going anywhere and even then it can still cause her some pain and discomfort. It does seem to get better the longer we're having sex, but this morning she didn't seem to relax and enjoy it for the discomfort even after 5-10 minutes.
I guess I am looking for some help, advice, tips or anything that might be able to be suggested that might make sex more enjoyable for the both of us. Also, could there be a medical reason for this? Or is it simply a case that some girls are tighter than others, or is it that she simply hasn't had much sex before reaching an older age? The obvious answer would be that I'm at fault for having a huge cock, but I while I am above average at about 7" I would say I have average girth.
-Adam
Firstly, we are both 25, healthy and very much in love! My girlfriend was the first girl I had ever been with at the ripe age of 23, she had sex once before me with her first boyfriend.. So basically we are still learning alot about sex, experimenting and having fun! More often or not however we will end up doing oral sex or indulge in mutual masturbation rather than intercourse.. The reason for his is that she often finds it painful as her vagina is very tight which feels great for me, but when you care so much about someone its hard to enjoy something that causes someone else pain. We often spend a good deal of time on foreplay, kissing, touching and so on and she always gets wet (To some degree) but even after foreplay we can't just jump into it, we need to use lube as without it I'm not going anywhere and even then it can still cause her some pain and discomfort. It does seem to get better the longer we're having sex, but this morning she didn't seem to relax and enjoy it for the discomfort even after 5-10 minutes.
I guess I am looking for some help, advice, tips or anything that might be able to be suggested that might make sex more enjoyable for the both of us. Also, could there be a medical reason for this? Or is it simply a case that some girls are tighter than others, or is it that she simply hasn't had much sex before reaching an older age? The obvious answer would be that I'm at fault for having a huge cock, but I while I am above average at about 7" I would say I have average girth.
-Adam