Stacy_TG
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With regard to sexual innuendos..when is a joke just a joke...or is it something more?
So lately I've been getting to know this guy I work with. He's a nice guy, and we hang out on lunch break, etc., and lately he's been making jokes like right before lunch one day I said I was hungry and he said "I got a protein shake for you." Haha. He said a few weeks ago, that he's so desperate for a raise that he'd suck the boss off. He said it laughingly and jokingly. Things like that.
So as I've been getting more and more comfortable, I made a comment the other day about money being an issue, etc., and I said "Ya know, I gotta admit, I think I'd blow the boss for a raise too!" He looked over at me and said "You can suck me off if you want. You'd be the prettiest guy to suck my dick!"
So here's the thing, I can't tell if he's joking (because he's smiling and laughing), or if he's being serious.
He's confided in me that him and his girlfriend and not doing so well. He's working a ton of hours to try and get ahead and she wants to take a break. He seems lonely a bit more lately, and I gotta admit, he's kinda cute. He's also commented to me about guys being cute, but then he plays the "I'm not gay, and I'm confident in my sexuality but....is really good looking!"
So basically, are all these comments to me, is he making them in passing because he's joking around, or do you think there might be something deeper going on. I'll be totally honest, if he comes out to me with one more of his jokes, I'm going to reply with something like "Better stop offering!"
Because it's really tormenting me. I'd love to be with him. He's a really nice guy, but I don't know if he, ya know...would be "into" me...dressing like a girl in private, being transgender, etc.
I'd suck him off in a heartbeat if I had the chance. So my question is...how do I approach this? Do I just chalk it up to he's just making sex jokes/innuendos because he thinks that they're funny, or is he really potentially possibly interested in me?
More data: He's seen me in my short shorts in the summer and my shaven legs, and it's really obvious that I shave my arms, too...do you think he might "know" about me, and he's using his jokes to flirt with me?
I'm about this close to start making passes back at him. You know, like conveniently tying my shoe when we're in the elevator, then looking up at him when he's talking, etc.
What do you think, dear friends?
So lately I've been getting to know this guy I work with. He's a nice guy, and we hang out on lunch break, etc., and lately he's been making jokes like right before lunch one day I said I was hungry and he said "I got a protein shake for you." Haha. He said a few weeks ago, that he's so desperate for a raise that he'd suck the boss off. He said it laughingly and jokingly. Things like that.
So as I've been getting more and more comfortable, I made a comment the other day about money being an issue, etc., and I said "Ya know, I gotta admit, I think I'd blow the boss for a raise too!" He looked over at me and said "You can suck me off if you want. You'd be the prettiest guy to suck my dick!"
So here's the thing, I can't tell if he's joking (because he's smiling and laughing), or if he's being serious.
He's confided in me that him and his girlfriend and not doing so well. He's working a ton of hours to try and get ahead and she wants to take a break. He seems lonely a bit more lately, and I gotta admit, he's kinda cute. He's also commented to me about guys being cute, but then he plays the "I'm not gay, and I'm confident in my sexuality but....is really good looking!"
So basically, are all these comments to me, is he making them in passing because he's joking around, or do you think there might be something deeper going on. I'll be totally honest, if he comes out to me with one more of his jokes, I'm going to reply with something like "Better stop offering!"
Because it's really tormenting me. I'd love to be with him. He's a really nice guy, but I don't know if he, ya know...would be "into" me...dressing like a girl in private, being transgender, etc.
I'd suck him off in a heartbeat if I had the chance. So my question is...how do I approach this? Do I just chalk it up to he's just making sex jokes/innuendos because he thinks that they're funny, or is he really potentially possibly interested in me?
More data: He's seen me in my short shorts in the summer and my shaven legs, and it's really obvious that I shave my arms, too...do you think he might "know" about me, and he's using his jokes to flirt with me?
I'm about this close to start making passes back at him. You know, like conveniently tying my shoe when we're in the elevator, then looking up at him when he's talking, etc.
What do you think, dear friends?