My question is where do you get new ideas for humiliating your sub, or being humiliated by you Dom/Domme? I've never been real big on porn in the form of pictures and videos until I came here. Through a couple of picture threads, I found my way to Tumblr and the rest is history.
I've always given ideas on how I would like to be humiliated, which he ignores 75% of. He has his own agenda and will do as he pleases. He does throw mw a bone now and then. One thing that he has taught me is that variety is very important. My last Dom had a ritual and it varied very little, but I loved it nonetheless.
Now that I have my own sub I like to keep it mixed up. We both love humiliation (me giving/her getting) and unlike Sir, I will listen to her ideas, but I choose how and when I carry out her suggestions. I also find ideas for abusing Steve, her husband, who is technically also my sub. I never, ever found CBT and abusing a man arousing, but he loves it so it's not fair to leave him out of the whole group dynamic. I just found a series of CBT GIFs that he is going to be very grateful for.
I have actually found a lot of great ideas from reading stories here, but lately, I have been carousing some of the humiliation and pain sites on Tumblr as well as looking at some of the free video sites.
I have a good list written down that should take me through the end of the year, but I'm open to suggestions on where to find more. I'm mostly looking for ways for me to humiliate and torture Lynn, I am very fond of really abusing her big boobs, she is ready for more than I am willing to give her in that regard.
Sir said we will be going to a club in the city soon that he and I have been to and that I can do a scene on stage with Lynn. So I want to choreograph and rehearse the scene a few times so I don't embarrass myself, so the research continues.
I've always given ideas on how I would like to be humiliated, which he ignores 75% of. He has his own agenda and will do as he pleases. He does throw mw a bone now and then. One thing that he has taught me is that variety is very important. My last Dom had a ritual and it varied very little, but I loved it nonetheless.
Now that I have my own sub I like to keep it mixed up. We both love humiliation (me giving/her getting) and unlike Sir, I will listen to her ideas, but I choose how and when I carry out her suggestions. I also find ideas for abusing Steve, her husband, who is technically also my sub. I never, ever found CBT and abusing a man arousing, but he loves it so it's not fair to leave him out of the whole group dynamic. I just found a series of CBT GIFs that he is going to be very grateful for.
I have actually found a lot of great ideas from reading stories here, but lately, I have been carousing some of the humiliation and pain sites on Tumblr as well as looking at some of the free video sites.
I have a good list written down that should take me through the end of the year, but I'm open to suggestions on where to find more. I'm mostly looking for ways for me to humiliate and torture Lynn, I am very fond of really abusing her big boobs, she is ready for more than I am willing to give her in that regard.
Sir said we will be going to a club in the city soon that he and I have been to and that I can do a scene on stage with Lynn. So I want to choreograph and rehearse the scene a few times so I don't embarrass myself, so the research continues.