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pisces_girl

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I'm more accustomed to having an orgasm from penetration either using a toy or fingers. Sometimes when I rub my clit I feel like its too sensitive or not sensitive enough. Has anyone else had this frustration? I'd really like to be able to have a full orgasm this way.
 
Me too

I used to be unable to orgasm just by rubbing my clit, but now I found a way.

1. Either be watching porn, extremely aroused, or have bf near, or all of the above.

2. take 2 fingers, I use first and middle, and place on either side of clit, imagine that you are making bunny ears with your fingers and make sure your clit is in the middle.

3. rub in gentle circular motions.

4. have amazing orgasm

5. repeat. lol
 
pisces_girl said:
I'm more accustomed to having an orgasm from penetration either using a toy or fingers. Sometimes when I rub my clit I feel like its too sensitive or not sensitive enough. Has anyone else had this frustration? I'd really like to be able to have a full orgasm this way.
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I can't have an orgasm from rubbing my clit directly but I found other ways to rub near that area that definitely get me off. Experimenting is fun and not everyone is built the same way so just keep trying until you see what works! ;)
 
goodness I'm jealous that you orgasm from penetration!!! not something everyone is able to achieve. :)

just experiement, make sure you are relaxed and start with the area around your clit.

i'm not too senstive and can directly play - but intially starting with the surrounding area may help
 
I dunno it doesn't take me long I can hold the tip of my vib there and gush. It's wonderful, esp over and over gets stronger.

But love the penetration O as well and getting at the same time, OMG!!
 
sexiskye said:
I dunno it doesn't take me long I can hold the tip of my vib there and gush. It's wonderful, esp over and over gets stronger.

But love the penetration O as well and getting at the same time, OMG!!
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i couldn't agree more about the penetration and clit rub at the same time. best of both worlds :)
 
Try using lube also. It helps me. Being able to move over the clit smooth and slick with lube is a great way to achieve orgasm.
 
I would say I play with my clit at least 80% of the time I'm getting off. I just have to make sure I'm pretty turned on first... doesn't feel good unless I'm wet.

Andddddd, I agree, penetration and playing withe the clit when it's slippery and sensitive is the ultimate solo orgasm
 
Cruel2BKind said:
I used to be unable to orgasm just by rubbing my clit, but now I found a way.

1. Either be watching porn, extremely aroused, or have bf near, or all of the above.

2. take 2 fingers, I use first and middle, and place on either side of clit, imagine that you are making bunny ears with your fingers and make sure your clit is in the middle.

3. rub in gentle circular motions.

4. have amazing orgasm

5. repeat. lol
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Having someone watching ie bf or gf is the ideal!
 
Oh...I just went onto that link... I had to try that kegel squeeze with holding the whole shaft.........Well, I must experiment more..LOL.. Feels nice..

Well you learn something every day as the cliche goes

Lou
 
scratchnsniff said:
I would say I play with my clit at least 80% of the time I'm getting off. I just have to make sure I'm pretty turned on first... doesn't feel good unless I'm wet.

Andddddd, I agree, penetration and playing withe the clit when it's slippery and sensitive is the ultimate solo orgasm
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I am with you ScratchnSniff and with a little bottom play also
 
the wife

my wife can cum from only clit stimulation, she gets very wet so lube isn't necessary.

Either she or I will rub a finger tip over it, although the pressure can differ the 'beat' has to be a constant, rhythmic motion, the closer she is to orgasm the more need for a good fast finger movement. Once she has come, as said in prior post her clit becomes very sensitive.

I find it easier to go down on her, I have better control with my tongue :D
 
I can identify with all the women above who say their clit is waaay to sensitive to touch...but that hasn't stopped me finding a way around the problem. Here are my three steps to bliss :

1) Find the buried bit of your clit (sort of like a shaft running into you if that makes sense?)
2) push, rub , stroke & squeeze this bit - through the folds of skin surrounding it, not touching it directly :)
3) wait until everything is really wet before spreading it around and touching the exposed bit of your clit

I like to find a spot near the base of my nub where i can grip the shaft between my thumb and forefinger and slowly wank it like a little cock... well, it works for me anyway :)
 
pisces_girl said:
I'm more accustomed to having an orgasm from penetration either using a toy or fingers. Sometimes when I rub my clit I feel like its too sensitive or not sensitive enough. Has anyone else had this frustration? I'd really like to be able to have a full orgasm this way.
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I get the too sensitive part, and sometimes to begin with too dry :eek: but typically no probs whatsoever getting uber excited and having a nice juicy orgasm that way, poor you if you're finding it hard :(
 
my wife can cum with a massager directly on her button and me or a vibe working her wet pussy hard and fast
 
My wife never came from penetration also. Well never like she does with the clit.
We were just fooling around one day. I was rubbing it with lots of lube wile in side her. Not really pumping just in side. It started to get really jumpy so i just lighted up my touch. And kept adding lube to it. Soon she says she had a whole new feeling. And started to orgasm hard. It scared her truthfully. It took almost an hr. the first time, I think. After that there has been no turning back. Now it take no time she has learned to enjoy it. Sometimes after she orgasms she laughs and cry's at the same time. She says she looses all control of her emotions. I find the best pumping is when shes orgasmic It feels The best to me also. Usually after we are done her legs are really jumpy also. Don't give up on it.
It really changed the way she feels about sex now. Enhanced both our sex lives.
 
Oh I forgot the rubbing I do that works for her is side to side with the two middle fingers. and slowly build up speed. Lots of lube Don't use to much pressure till she reaches peek. Make sure shes communicating with u. That's how its done for us. I really don't think she could go as hard herself. She couldn't keep it going. I guess its strange but it works for us. Out fav position is on our sides in a lie down doggie style. she usually throws a leg over me. Easy access to rubbing and penetration.
 
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When I get closer to orgasm, I can't handle direct contact with the clit, but I LOVE long hand strokes over the whole area and over my labia. The clit itself gets a bit painful because it's so sensitive.
 
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