Here is one that I don't think I've seen discussed before. I have no problem lasting as long as I need to to get my wife off. Sometimes it is ten minutes, sometimes thirty. We always end sex by having orgasms at the same time. The problem is that after all that time, I'm REALLY excited and she sounds so sexy when she cums. Her orgasms last about 30 seconds, mine much less than that. If I start my orgasm at the same time as she starts, I am done way before she is and I get too sensitive to keep moving. I either stop and she is frustrated or keep going and it doesn't feel good for me. Any tips on lasting longer through her orgasm? I've tried thinking about baseball, but when I distract myself, my technique suffers and usually doesn't get her over the edge.