Todger65
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It’s still Thursday here for another twoish hours...
http://forum.literotica.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=2067639&stc=1&d=1554439625
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It’s still Thursday here for another twoish hours...
http://forum.literotica.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=2067639&stc=1&d=1554439625
It’s still Thursday here for another twoish hours...
So, I had a very long, hectic night/morning... but I had a pretty big smile on my face through the whole thing... To repay, I give You the following:
Asiago
brie
chèvre
Dubliner
Edam
feta
gouda
Havarti
Iberico
Jarlsberg
Kashkaval
Limburger
Mascarpone
Neufchâtel
Old Amsterdam
Parmesan
Queso
Roquefort
Stilton
taleggio
ubriaco
velveeta
wensleydale
Xynotyro
Yeo lake
Zamorano
Oh, and I would like to point out that it’s currently drizzling with a promise of rain.
Good list. Whenever I see this kind of thing, it reminds me of the Monty Python sketch about the cheese shop. My favorite was Venezuelan Beaver Cheese...
I wish I had something of yours.
Something tangible that I could
Hold
Caress
Smell
Nuzzle
Touch
And be with.
These memories I cling to
That tramp through my brain
Unexpectedly or omnipresent
And sometimes completely
Phantasmal in nature
Help to stave off the need.
But when I see,
Or worse,
Hear you...
This feeling
This need
This hunger to
Hold and be enveloped
Caress and be soothed
Smell and be inhaled
Nuzzle and be snuggled
Touch and be melted
By you
Arises and
...It is overwhelming.
I wish I had something of yours.
Something tangible that I could
Hold
Caress
Smell
Nuzzle
Touch
And be with.
These memories I cling to
That tramp through my brain
Unexpectedly or omnipresent
And sometimes completely
Phantasmal in nature
Help to stave off the need.
But when I see,
Or worse,
Hear you...
This feeling
This need
This hunger to
Hold and be enveloped
Caress and be soothed
Smell and be inhaled
Nuzzle and be snuggled
Touch and be melted
By you
Arises and
...It is overwhelming.
I wish I had something of yours.
Something tangible that I could
Hold
Caress
Smell
Nuzzle
Touch
And be with.
These memories I cling to
That tramp through my brain
Unexpectedly or omnipresent
And sometimes completely
Phantasmal in nature
Help to stave off the need.
But when I see,
Or worse,
Hear you...
This feeling
This need
This hunger to
Hold and be enveloped
Caress and be soothed
Smell and be inhaled
Nuzzle and be snuggled
Touch and be melted
By you
Arises and
...It is overwhelming.
I wish I had something of yours.
Something tangible that I could
Hold
Caress
Smell
Nuzzle
Touch
And be with.
These memories I cling to
That tramp through my brain
Unexpectedly or omnipresent
And sometimes completely
Phantasmal in nature
Help to stave off the need.
But when I see,
Or worse,
Hear you...
This feeling
This need
This hunger to
Hold and be enveloped
Caress and be soothed
Smell and be inhaled
Nuzzle and be snuggled
Touch and be melted
By you
Arises and
...It is overwhelming.
Is it still considered a punishment if you enjoy receiving it?
Is it still considered a punishment if you enjoy receiving it?
I think that would depend on who was giving the punishment and why you were receiving it.
Based on the traditional definition of punishment, I think I would choose to refer to his actions as “consequences”.
I may have been intoxicated when posing the original question, but I don’t know if a language change would alter my original question...it just changes it: is it still an effective consequence when you enjoy it’s delivery?
I may have been intoxicated when posing the original question, but I don’t know if a language change would alter my original question...it just changes it: is it still an effective consequence when you enjoy it’s delivery?
A consequence is simply a result or effect of an action/behavior. A consequence of a behavior can be positive/pleasing , negative/unpleasant, or neutral. Most behaviors have a variety of consequences that can range from positive to negative. The term consequence is often used interchangeably with punishment but, while all punishments are consequences, not all consequences are punishments.
Punishment is a specific type of consequence. The goal of punishment is to reduce or extinguish a specific behavior. In behavioral psychology, there are two types of punishment - positive and negative. In this instance, positive and negative do not have the usual connotations of good/pleasing and bad/unpleasant. Positive punishment involves applying an aversive stimulus/consequence. Negative punishment involves removing a desired stimulus/consequence.
In your question, you are referring to positive punishment, the application of a stimulus that is supposed to be aversive - in this case, the inflicting of physical pain. If the recipient enjoys the stimulus/consequence, then this is not punishment. It is basically a reward and will serve to increase the likelihood of the recipient repeating the behavior that caused them to be punished in the first place. Perhaps a better positive punishment in this case would be to criticize or humiliate the person, one on one or in front of other people.
Negative punishment might also be more effective in this situation. This involves the removal of something that is desired by the recipient. For example, the withholding of affection or attention following the behavior that necessitated punishment.
So, with my background, I don't think you are receiving a punishment, as it is something that, overall, you enjoy. I would say that you are receiving consequences for your behavior. Which I think is actually your partner's goal. He enjoys meting out these consequences, knows that you enjoy receiving them, and therefore, wants to increase the likelihood that you will repeat the behavior that caused you to receive these consequences in the first place.