What's something you've always wanted to ask the opposite gender?

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A lot of guys say personality is more important than looks but let's be honest. It's usually the looks that first catch your eye and make you want to approach that person. So when and how do you meet someone because of their personality?
 
A lot of guys say personality is more important than looks but let's be honest. It's usually the looks that first catch your eye and make you want to approach that person. So when and how do you meet someone because of their personality?

The only examples I know of are internet based
 
looks get the approach, personality makes us hang around.

of course, online that can completely work the other way.

Granted, there are threshold for looks, and for me, intelligence. Once past that it is ALL about what kind of person they are, how well they express themselves, and a quick and clever wit.

I may be shallow, but women who 'rank' 1 through 5 or 6 with great personalities make good friends at best. Give me a sharp, funny 7 any day.
 
What is the most valuable lesson you've learned when dealing with women or mates? (Not leaving out those who may have same sex partners, even if it's going against the initial thread title)

Empathy for an individual and her needs, as opposed to easy generalizations and my own selfishness.
 
A lot of guys say personality is more important than looks but let's be honest. It's usually the looks that first catch your eye and make you want to approach that person. So when and how do you meet someone because of their personality?

Most any place besides a bar, and when I’m not looking to get laid. Like at work, or during chance meetings when I’m just walking down the street, not expecting or looking for anything. Sometimes women simply grow on me, and I begin to see a beauty that was not obvious at first, and my stupid cock insists on being heard from. Sometimes for better, sometimes for worse. :rolleyes:
 
I've wanted to ask if there are any women who have urinal-envy? ;)

Not really. Only jealous of the fact men can go anywhere outdoors, and women need to stoop. I do see devices for women who do, but we still need to clean afterwards. During menses are not a great thing to use either.
 
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Understanding that there are women who experience both clitoral and vaginal orgasms, as well as women who only experience one type or the other, could any female Litsters who experience both entertain a request to describe as precisely as possible the difference between how each of them is experienced? (I'd love to understand better out of sheer curiosity but it would also be useful in the context of story writing.)

I have seen attempts to explain the two but they always seem to fall short. How do the sensations differ? Are they of a different quality? A different intensity? There seems to be disagreement on this and whether one or the other is better. Where is the pleasure localized? In one area or whole body? Are/how are other parts of the body affected? Etc.
 
Do women find dicks attractive? Too me they look ugly and goofy, but do women look at them like men do boobs or do they just laugh?

It depends. Some are attractive and some are a bit lacking in looks. I guess it's who they are attached to, but this is my take on them. Not everyone may think nor react the same as I would.
 
Do women find dicks attractive? Too me they look ugly and goofy, but do women look at them like men do boobs or do they just laugh?

I'm not sure they work quite like I'm told boobs work... :D

But I would say there are cocks I find beautiful and cocks I find quite ugly. Like anything, really, I suppose.

I think context is also important. :)
 
A question for the ladies: Nipple piercings -- what do they do for you? Do they make your nipples more sensitive? Are they there because they look sexy? Or did you get them as a personal statement?
 
A question for the ladies: Nipple piercings -- what do they do for you? Do they make your nipples more sensitive? Are they there because they look sexy? Or did you get them as a personal statement?

My nipples aren't pierced and I have no interest in having them pierced. I have tried non-piercing jewelry because I like the look but it never works for me.

I will say that a former male friend of mine got his pierced. He was also a former model but had gained a bit too much weight to do that. He took off his shirt and dropped his pants. He was wearing a Speedo. Damn he was hot looking with those pierced nipples. But also gay so... Phooey.
 
A question for the ladies: Nipple piercings -- what do they do for you? Do they make your nipples more sensitive? Are they there because they look sexy? Or did you get them as a personal statement?

They don't appeal to me at all, my nips are already perfect just the way they are. :D
 
A question for the ladies: Nipple piercings -- what do they do for you? Do they make your nipples more sensitive? Are they there because they look sexy? Or did you get them as a personal statement?

However. :cool:

Pierced nips on a man sounds intriguing.

Just one, though. I like to have options.
 
Do women find dicks attractive?

I almost can't believe you're asking this question. Yes, the answer is yes.

If i have feels for a dude, i can be as much in love with his dick as i am with him.

There's this thread called Oral Servitude, maybe you should visit sometime.

What about pierced dicks? Do they do anything for you sexually?

No experience, but I'm definitely curious. About dicks of every persuasion, pretty much.
 
Well yeah I get that if you like the dude you are going to like his junk. What I meant was in of it's self, take away the man who possesses it, are dicks attractive.

I can answer that. Some are to me and some aren't. That being said, I've never been with a guy who had one that I found unattractive. Maybe I've just been lucky. I have seen a few pics that would make me want to run! Hehehe.
 
I can answer that. Some are to me and some aren't. That being said, I've never been with a guy who had one that I found unattractive. Maybe I've just been lucky. I have seen a few pics that would make me want to run! Hehehe.

A woman once told me of an occasion she fled upon being offered a bowl of soup that was too cold. Others have mentioned instances when the soup was too hot. And every once in a while the soup of the day simply seems a bit off, or they were expecting New England chowder and it turned out to be Manhattan. But usually it’s just right. Depending of course on how hungry one is.
 
A woman once told me of an occasion she fled upon being offered a bowl of soup that was too cold. Others have mentioned instances when the soup was too hot. And every once in a while the soup of the day simply seems a bit off, or they were expecting New England chowder and it turned out to be Manhattan. But usually it’s just right. Depending of course on how hungry one is.

Ah ha ha! :D

Well yeah I get that if you like the dude you are going to like his junk. What I meant was in of it's self, take away the man who possesses it, are dicks attractive.

I've started three Am Pics threads just for dicks, one for balls, and one PG thread for cum. The answer is still yes.

I've also got a thread for men who like getting their ass licked, if that matters. :D
 
Tit fucking.

What is the female perspective on this?

Its not really on my radar. It's never come up in person, and rarely online, if ever?

It doesn't hold a lot of appeal for me, but i am a curious girl and willing to try just about anything that my partner finds exciting, so... :D
 
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