Very Bad sub seek experienced sub for advice

AshleyLikesYouLots · Jun 20, 2010

I have recently been disowned by my former MASTER.

I'm pretty new at this and I was hoping that some more experienced subs could give me some advice? Thanks everyone.

where · Jun 20, 2010

why were you disowned?

the captians wench · Jun 20, 2010

And what was the nature of the relationship?

AshleyLikesYouLots · Jun 20, 2010

I was disobedient in general but I think the last straw was me leaving without permission.

It was mostly an online relationship.

where · Jun 20, 2010

*sniffs*

dunno why, but I smell troll

satindesire · Jun 20, 2010

AshleyLikesYouLots said:
I was disobedient in general but I think the last straw was me leaving without permission.

It was mostly an online relationship.

We can't give you advice about anything until you tell us exactly what kind of advice you need. We can't read your mind, you know. xD

erofreeman · Jun 20, 2010

A mistake.

erofreeman · Jun 20, 2010

AshleyLikesYouLots said:
I was disobedient in general but I think the last straw was me leaving without permission.

It was mostly an online relationship.

I can be your new Master. I am playing online relationships too.

Kikori · Jun 21, 2010

Again, just looking through posts might help. ^_^;

If this person is a troll, they're a very dedicated troll who came back from a year or so absence after finding their "online dom" here. So, the thought of a troll is still there, but I'm inclined to believe she's actually an online sub who was given the recent boot.

I was disobedient in general but I think the last straw was me leaving without permission.

It was mostly an online relationship.

All I can gather from this topic, too, is that we're dealing with a SAM who eventually crossed the line. That raises one thought for Ashley; were there really no signs of him disliking your disobedience before your "demotion"? Because, if there were, hindsight should show you could have very much been attentive to his reception of your behavior (as opposed to only his orders, requests, etc.)

Kind_Listener · Jun 21, 2010

Hi Ashley, Like several people have said, there's really not enough information just yet to give you helpfull advice, however, I've put what I thought might help in a PM to you. And one word of advice right now is, don't just jump in with another new Dominant, but try to learn and find out things first, before comitting yourself to something like a D/s relationship, as being owned.

Evil_Geoff · Jun 21, 2010

Get out from behind your computer and get involved with your local BDSM educational group(s).

To find local Munches, email groups, and events in your area, try:

SceneUSA - http://www.darkheart.com/sceneusa.html
Caryl's Page - http://www.drkdesyre.com/
The BDSM Events Page - http://www.thebdsmeventspage.com/ which has links to both organizations AND events.
SirPaul's National Munch Page - http://phoenixdragon.dreamknight87.com/nmp.htm

Good luck.

Etoile · Jun 21, 2010

Ick, I hate being dragged into someone's drama/relationship.

For real advice, you have to be more specific.

where · Jun 21, 2010

Kikori said:
Again, just looking through posts might help. ^_^;

If this person is a troll, they're a very dedicated troll who came back from a year or so absence after finding their "online dom" here. So, the thought of a troll is still there, but I'm inclined to believe she's actually an online sub who was given the recent boot.

All I can gather from this topic, too, is that we're dealing with a SAM who eventually crossed the line. That raises one thought for Ashley; were there really no signs of him disliking your disobedience before your "demotion"? Because, if there were, hindsight should show you could have very much been attentive to his reception of your behavior (as opposed to only his orders, requests, etc.)

My natural habitati is the GB and threads like this are frequent and they are always trolling threads. A year's absence is meaningless if it's actually a troll because they surely will have a presence.

what's a a SAM?

MisterSir · Jun 21, 2010

Short for "smart-ass masochist", refers to subs who just generally like mouthing off.

where · Jun 21, 2010

MisterSir said:
Short for "smart-ass masochist", refers to subs who just generally like mouthing off.

hmmmm... wonder if I'm a SAM?

Very Bad sub seek experienced sub for advice

AshleyLikesYouLots

Virgin

where

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the captians wench

sewing wench

AshleyLikesYouLots

Virgin

where

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satindesire

Queen of Geeks

erofreeman

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erofreeman

Virgin

Kikori

Burning My Dread

Kind_Listener

Virgin

Evil_Geoff

Equal Opportunity Sadist

Etoile

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where

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MisterSir

Internet Detective

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