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chy_girl said:
The original question to my Sir was:


That was the original paper topic. Then there was a tantrum, and some rather inexcusable behavior on my part (that I'm still expecting a consequence for), and the explosion of the issue that bore the seed that grew into the original question to my Sir.

I've asked for permission to tweak the topic some to include feedback from others I know and the very enlightening and helpful recommendation to read the Delving the Psyche of Sadists thread over in talk (which I have like 6 pages to go).

So in short we went from "Is this a D/s thing or an us thing and why does it happen" to "I understand now why you'd rather have a good cut of beef over McDonald's and I'm totally cool with being pot roast, and this is how trust plays into all of it and the environment that is created via your even and my odd."

And yes, it is exactly that confusing in my head at the moment... But I'm good with that because I'm pot roast.
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Man, way to over complicate it. :D But yay for being pot roast!

Is that topic actually covered in the Psyche of the Sadists thread? Otherwise, it could be a good one on it's own?
 
Lizzie_Borden said:
Man, way to over complicate it. :D But yay for being pot roast!

Is that topic actually covered in the Psyche of the Sadists thread? Otherwise, it could be a good one on it's own?
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It was actually fillet minion vs McDonald's but I'm not his primary person and pot roast is easier to spell ;)

Seriously though... Someone (AngelicAssassin, maybe?) asked
*snip*
Most of us know a PYL can go looking for another piece of meat to beat if so inclined. i'm curious if anyone finds beating one piece of meat over another akin to the difference between rarely consumed filet mignon, and a McDonald's Happy Meal burger picked up going through the drive-thru for convenience.
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To which (I believe) RJ answered
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In this regard, its more about quality than quantity, which I feel can only be found within the conext of a long lasting relationship. There is an accumulative quality that is reached over time.

I know I am not a sadist in the sense that I enjoy inflicting pain on another, unless I know the results of such is one that the person enjoys and will bring them closer to me.
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Which added to something that Francisco and topped off by a recent conversation (or 3) and suddenly the whole damned thing made sense. Everything I couldn't understand the "why" of fluffed into the air and when it came down every damned piece landed in the right spot. And my first thought was (head tipping and all) "Ooohhhh... That's it? That's all there is to it? Well why didn't someone just say that?" and my second thought was "I'm pot roast... *thinks* *nods* I'm totally good with that!"

(And not that I don't naturally over complicate things, because I do, but on the whole, this one really didn't need much help. Honestly.)

:D
Now all I have to do is write the damned paper.
 
Etoile said:
I totally need a vegetarian translation here.
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How are you coping there with the veggie stuff. Its one thing I am worried about when it comes to visiting places in the far east. Especially as my language skills leave a lot to be desired too.
 
naxalite0906 said:
How are you coping there with the veggie stuff. Its one thing I am worried about when it comes to visiting places in the far east. Especially as my language skills leave a lot to be desired too.
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So far, so good. Only once have I knowingly, deliberately, ordered something non-vegetarian. I was at a sketchy restaurant (the English-language menu included "pig rectum" but nobody spoke English) and the only thing I could identify as acceptable was beef broth soup. It didn't have any meat pieces in it, and before I came I decided I would look the other way on broth (I have also had miso soup, which contains katsuobashi, from fish). So I had the beef broth soup, and it was fine, I didn't get sick, it was pretty yummy.

Other than that I have been totally fine. I mostly cook noodle bowls, discarding the packets (and if there are no packets, if the stuff is already in there, I discard the whole thing). I also eat a lot of inarizushi and I put fried tofu (from the grocery store) in my noodle bowls sometimes. I do eat a fair number of egg salad sandwiches from the convenience stores, too. I also eat a lot of rice!
 
Etoile said:
I totally need a vegetarian translation here.
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Ok... Ummmm... Really greasy, limp french fries vs a summer stir-fry of lightly seasoned freshly picked, vine ripened veggies cooked *just* to the point that they've barely started to soften but still have that bit of firmness and crunch.

Or store bought (picked green and ripened on the way) strawberries vs picking the firm, sun warmed berry off the plant and eating in the middle of the garden/field.

BiaTcHiNFiRe said:
Ok so now I know it for sure, I am pregnant. :)
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Congratulations!:rose:

Lizzie_Borden said:
Why is it that I only notice my typos after the text has been quoted?
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Murphy's Law of forum use.:D
 
I don't want to do the dishes. I don't particularly feel like cleaning period. Maybe if I take a nap...
 
Daddy2mylilgirl said:
I would say don't drive yourself crazy over-analyzing everything. Just hang out, have fun, get to know her better, and whatever happens, happens.
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So, the results are in: Despite even my poorer jokes getting laughs, I still have no better idea what this girl wants from me than I did before. You girls really do not make things easy on a guy, do you?
 
MisterSir said:
So, the results are in: Despite even my poorer jokes getting laughs, I still have no better idea what this girl wants from me than I did before. You girls really do not make things easy on a guy, do you?
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Have you asked her? Directly?
 
MisterSir said:
So, the results are in: Despite even my poorer jokes getting laughs, I still have no better idea what this girl wants from me than I did before. You girls really do not make things easy on a guy, do you?
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When something's working, I say don't change your game plan. More poor jokes, pronto!
 
now is the time to move into the really bad dirty jokes, my friend. test the limits.
 
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