New faces, come say hello...

Hi SweetLissa, welcome to the BDSM area of Lit.

Hi D3praved!

Welcome to our little pervy part of Lit.

Introduction as requested

I am a 28 yr old woman, living in "somewhere" Ontario, Canada. I've known this site for many years but never looked beyond the stories until I.. just decided to one day.

Domme, straight, tall, slim, single - and staying that way until I find someone 'right' for me.

I was introduced to BDSM by a former boyfriend and we had good adventures for awhile. Since then, I've dated a few men, some subs some not - and unsurprisingly there seems to be no 'going back'.
I don't want to, and it doesn't suit my personality, haha.

So I am not a troll, but a real person. I'm just not particularly 'vocal'. Its my nature to observe before I act; at least in this area of my life. Don't mistake that for indecision, I very much know what I'm doing.

Cheers to you all,
N

Hello, everyone.

I'm a 31yr woman living in Europe. I've been reading a bit here and decided to join in on the intelligent conversation.

A little about me. I am not a submissive by nature, but I submit to my husband. I have no desire or inclination to submit myself to anyone else for any reason. I don't feel a *need* to submit to him, or compelled. I submit to his will because I want to. Our dynamic fulfills an emotional need for the both of us.

He has the final say, but there's nothing formal such as a list of rules or protocol, though there are a few. No punishment. I do whatever I want within the guidelines he has allowed, or what I know he will allow, or ask if I am able. I sometimes buck the system, and he sometimes allows it.

So, yeah... hi

Well I might as well have a crack at this too!

Hi!! *waves*

Im confused, the first pages of posts seemed to be in a slightly foreign language so my apologies if I go sticking a foot in anything.

Im 27, engaged and assistant to the director of a national charity.... oooh I like that, its just a posh way of saying Im screwing the boss!
Ok, serious, apparently the whole bdsm thing is my thing, I thought it was just sex stuff but the vanillas of the world nearly had themselves a fit when it came up in convo so I figure either I belong here or they are just far too boring for me.

Im neither sub nor dom although given the feisty and fiery nature of my partner, subbing seems to be me, on saying that, there's something immensley satisfying in subbing her so I think Im growing into a more dominant character although that side of it remains in the sexual sense as opposed to everyday things.

I fully believe in trying everything once, otherwise you'll never know if you like it or not.

turn ons include: biting, fisting, restraints (although yet to find something comfortable thats not too loud.... I have noisy handcuffs! ), wax/candles, leather, strap ons, really rough sex,feathers, some pain ie scratching biting, occasionally to the drawing blood stage, and strangely maybe, growling.

turn offs include: feet, men (sorry, you're nice enough but no, I dont wanna ride you, suck you or really even see what you keep in your pants, but I'll play pool with you and no, thats not a euphamism), any sort of toilet function, almost all porn (yes, Im weird!) and body hair.

Dyke_Writer said:

Well I might as well have a crack at this too!

Hi!! *waves*

Im confused, the first pages of posts seemed to be in a slightly foreign language so my apologies if I go sticking a foot in anything.

Im 27, engaged and assistant to the director of a national charity.... oooh I like that, its just a posh way of saying Im screwing the boss!
Ok, serious, apparently the whole bdsm thing is my thing, I thought it was just sex stuff but the vanillas of the world nearly had themselves a fit when it came up in convo so I figure either I belong here or they are just far too boring for me.

Im neither sub nor dom although given the feisty and fiery nature of my partner, subbing seems to be me, on saying that, there's something immensley satisfying in subbing her so I think Im growing into a more dominant character although that side of it remains in the sexual sense as opposed to everyday things.

I fully believe in trying everything once, otherwise you'll never know if you like it or not.

turn ons include: biting, fisting, restraints (although yet to find something comfortable thats not too loud.... I have noisy handcuffs! ), wax/candles, leather, strap ons, really rough sex,feathers, some pain ie scratching biting, occasionally to the drawing blood stage, and strangely maybe, growling.

turn offs include: feet, men (sorry, you're nice enough but no, I dont wanna ride you, suck you or really even see what you keep in your pants, but I'll play pool with you and no, thats not a euphamism), any sort of toilet function, almost all porn (yes, Im weird!) and body hair.

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Welcome, I'm sure you'll find the lit community inviting and warm. As far as the vanilla's of the world, to each their own. You'll even find at times you don't really 'fit in' here on the general boards. People just like to judge, so don't let it bother you. Not that I'm telling you anything you don't already know of course. Anyways, welcome! And that's one hell of a pic as your sig

Lumberjacked said:

Welcome, I'm sure you'll find the lit community inviting and warm. As far as the vanilla's of the world, to each their own. You'll even find at times you don't really 'fit in' here on the general boards. People just like to judge, so don't let it bother you. Not that I'm telling you anything you don't already know of course. Anyways, welcome! And that's one hell of a pic as your sig

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Thank you Lumberjacked. I tend to find I dont really fit in anywhere but hey ho, its all good and at least I can enjoy many things without really being pigeon-holed.

Peeps really like that pic, gotta say its not an eye sore for me either!

Dyke_Writer said:

turn offs include: feet, men (sorry, you're nice enough but no, I dont wanna ride you, suck you or really even see what you keep in your pants, but I'll play pool with you and no, thats not a euphamism), any sort of toilet function, almost all porn (yes, Im weird!) and body hair.

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You like pool, do you? I'll bet you have a nice rack.

No, really, I was referring to the triangle thing.

Really.

No, seriously.

Stop snickering everyone, I'm not talking about her tits.

Really.

Okay, I was. Fuck.

You got me.

Welcome.

Hi and welcome to:-

GnomeDePlume

Novelust

Dyke Writer

lovecookrider

d3praved

SweetLissa

It is great to see loads of new people taking the plunge and posting here. Just about everybody here is going to be happy to pull up a log to the fire, sit a spell, swap stories, gossip, get deeply intellectual or just have a laff. Hope you are all happy to join in and enjoy the company.

Hi and welcome to our little corner of lust and kinky to:

00Syd
alyse
AnIrishcharmer!
bonnie_baby
Bunnytrax
d3praved
Dyke Writer
GnomeDePlume
jennifer_noelle
KinkyKiki7
lovecookrider
Meyotch
Naughty_nicole.
northern_nights
Novelust
SharpObjects
SweetLissa
wanting_bunny

Here you will find: laughs, kisses, roses, friends, spanks, advices, questions, answers, and a lot of bdsm related stuf.

Hope you wilñl stay and visit often!

See you,
Angel.

RawHumor said:

You like pool, do you? I'll bet you have a nice rack.

No, really, I was referring to the triangle thing.

Really.

No, seriously.

Stop snickering everyone, I'm not talking about her tits.

Really.

Okay, I was. Fuck.

You got me.

Welcome.

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lmao the rack, well it needs more to it but it serves its purpose!

Thank you all for the very warm welcome!

Ok, so I am new here.

I also have not...completely...discovered BDSM. I am curious. I always have been. I, at one point in time, considered myself bisexual. But...a lot of time has passed since I've actually done anything with another female. But the thought of it still turns me on...and it's typically what I go to when and if I watch any porn

I am actually pretty shy; and I can't think of anything else to say right now, lol.

Welcome LadyChaotic.

Hello everyone ^_^

This here is my introduction to you all, hopefully it will give you a glimpse of what I’m all about.

Lets see, I’m a 22 year old male, mostly into women, love BDSM, and am a romantic… although my ideas of romance are rather deviant. I am dominant with a sadistic streak that surfaces once in a while, and I like a 24/7 D/s sort of relationship. I don’t have any technical experience with BDSM, but I do have about 2 years worth of hands on experience. I hope that can be respected with at least some recognition cause I really don’t want to start from the bottom… ironic

At the moment I am actually in a set location, which is rare for me. Settled down to do the GE thing in preparation for a psychology major. Sadly in order to do so I now live in a not so glamorous community, the advantage is cheep schooling, but along with that comes a “if your different your dead attitude” from the peers.

And so I am here because I’m searching for some kind of connection to the BDSM community. The nearest munch is about a 3 hours drive away, not a place I will be going to regularly. I chose this forum because it seems nice, and right next door we have all those wonderful stories. Hopefully we will get along… oh, one note on that, if I ever seem mechanically cold or aggressive please don’t take it personally. It’s in my nature, but I assure you there is no hostility implied by it.

I have also taken up writing erotic stories, which is basically the act of recording my daydreams. Ill be adding some soon if all goes right, this should be loads of fun.

PS. If you have any questions feel free to PM me.

Welcome YourCaptor.

A rose, how thoughtful.

Thank you so much Furry. I see you greet everyone here, that must take a lot of effort.

I need to insist about something though, for this rose to achieve its full beauty, I think you must wear it.

*sticks rose into the center of your blouse*

Mind the thorns, they will sting.

YourCaptor said:

A rose, how thoughtful.

Thank you so much Furry. I see you greet everyone here, that must take a lot of effort.

I need to insist about something though, for this rose to achieve its full beauty, I think you must wear it.

*sticks rose into the center of your blouse*

Mind the thorns, they will sting.

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Thank you.



Yes, the thorns are just one reason I love roses.

Welcome LadyChaotic, welcome YourCaptor.

Feel like at grandad home!

Thank you Trisquell...I took that kinky quiz too...I was a 93% I think, lol.

Dyke_Writer said:

lmao the rack, well it needs more to it but it serves its purpose!

Thank you all for the very warm welcome!

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Is that you in your sig pic or just a cool pic you found?

How did this....

*rolls eyes*

Even after hundreds of posts, you can still make mistakes. *sighs wistfully*

I was ABOUT to say Furry forgot to mention dancing bananas. But it's a moot point now I suppose.

Simply be yourself, respect one another's views and perhaps being new you can bring new and fresh ideas in where the air has been and can be stale from time to time.

No real worries about misspells, grammar or correct verbage. It throws me from time to time as well.
I am glad you've all come in and decided to look around.
Welcome.

RawHumor said:

Is that you in your sig pic or just a cool pic you found?

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Its just a randomly sexy pic I found and managed to save..... It could be me though... but its not.... unless I suddenly found my sexy and took a bunch of pics when I wasn't looking.

I honestly try to ignore DB's. They tend to drive me NUTS otherwise.