Just Saying....

the_pet

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Some people over on the GB forum scare me. They're either very crazy or very mean/angry.

....but maybe i'm just naive and non-confrontational.


just saying....
 
the_pet said:
Some people over on the GB forum scare me. They're either very crazy or very mean/angry.

....but maybe i'm just naive and non-confrontational.


just saying....

no..they are mean and angry for the most part and they're none too friendly to most folks from this forum. The playground is much nicer but has more than its' fair share of HNG's
 
Nobody's been rude or ugly with me but when i read some of the threads it's like WHOA! they are brutal!

...and some of them i can't tell if the people are really mental or just faking!
 
the_pet said:
Some people over on the GB forum scare me. They're either very crazy or very mean/angry.

....but maybe i'm just naive and non-confrontational.


just saying....
Actually I might disagree to some extent. There are angry/mean/crazy people anywhere in proportion , it's a larger community so it can seem that way. I frequent the GB on occasion and have no issues there , in fact have made some wonderful , generous friends over the duration. Like anywhere it has it's own customs and takes awhile to find a niche . If you are looking for diversity of topic outside of BDSM there are some real diamonds to be discovered. Take your time, be patient would be my best advice :rose:
 
@}-}rebecca---- said:
Actually I might disagree to some extent. There are angry/mean/crazy people anywhere in proportion , it's a larger community so it can seem that way. I frequent the GB on occasion and have no issues there , in fact have made some wonderful , generous friends over the duration. Like anywhere it has it's own customs and takes awhile to find a niche . If you are looking for diversity of topic outside of BDSM there are some real diamonds to be discovered. Take your time, be patient would be my best advice :rose:


...that's were the "some people" part comes into play. I've read some really interesting threads but i've seen some hijacked unpleasantly. The people i have interacted with have all been great and very respectful but i don't think i'm brave enough to start a topic over there.
 
People are much more belligerent about their opinions, there, but it's kind of refreshing. But if you're not a combative person who views debate as sport OR a person who doesn't give a crap about people on message boards, your blood pressure will go up. I've flitted in and out, but overall, the political debates toward no discernible end just bore me.
 
the_pet said:
...that's were the "some people" part comes into play. I've read some really interesting threads but i've seen some hijacked unpleasantly. The people i have interacted with have all been great and very respectful but i don't think i'm brave enough to start a topic over there.
: chuckles: Yes the draw of the BDSM Forum no one hijacks.

Soooooooooo anyone need a cookie or a beating ?

DIAL : 996-KINK ask for Miss Grace :D
 
the_pet said:
Some people over on the GB forum scare me. They're either very crazy or very mean/angry.

....but maybe i'm just naive and non-confrontational.


just saying....


Maybe you're just too thin skinned.
 
Netzach said:
People are much more belligerent about their opinions, there, but it's kind of refreshing. But if you're not a combative person who views debate as sport OR a person who doesn't give a crap about people on message boards, your blood pressure will go up. I've flitted in and out, but overall, the political debates toward no discernible end just bore me.

I'd agree with this. The political debates get rather redundant, with nobody ever conceding a point to the other side.

There is a fair bit of venom over there, but for the most part, it's good-natured venom.

There's a lot of variety among the posters over there as well.

One reason I like it (at least compared to, say, the Playground), is that they tend to keep the useless fluff to a minimum (do they really need an even number thread, and odd number thread, and a numbers counting down thread in the PG?), and people with sig lines that are 18 pages long tend to get requested to adjust them a bit.

I'll say this though - the initiation can be brutal. I got into some pretty big blow-ups with a guy or two when I first went over there - largely my own fault. Now the one I used to spat with the most is one of my better male friends (in terms of Lit, at least).
 
I'm glad someone posted about this because I've been wanting to bitch about this for while. Here's one of my only posts from the GB:

Nameless_Rose said:
What movie are you looking forward to? I was just on IMDB looking for updates on a few of the ones I'm excited about, and I thought it would be interesting to see what else people are anticipating.

Here's my list:

-Stardust
-Tim Burton's Sweeney Todd
-I Am Legend
-The next Daniel Craig bond movie
-Indiana Jones 4
-The Hobbit (they say it'll be out in 2009, but I'll believe it when I see it)
-True Blood (HBO series based off of Charlaine Harris's Southern Vampire novels)

This is the first response I got:
Nipples McGee said:
I don't know about movies, but one thing I can't wait for is for you to take your stupid fucking questions elsewhere, asshole!

To which I replied:
Nameless_Rose said:
Dear Nipples McGee:

fuck off

Needless to say, that was the end of my forays into the GB. I mean, maybe that was some sort of weird joke, or maybe I did something wrong because I'm a noob, but honestly some of the other stuff I've seen posted on that board frightens me. Lots of racism, rudeness, vulgarity and intolerance. It's not all bad, by any means, but I think I'm going to stick with the BDSM boards for the most part.
 
Nameless_Rose said:
I'm glad someone posted about this because I've been wanting to bitch about this for while. Here's one of my only posts from the GB:



This is the first response I got:

To which I replied:

Needless to say, that was the end of my forays into the GB. I mean, maybe that was some sort of weird joke, or maybe I did something wrong because I'm a noob, but honestly some of the other stuff I've seen posted on that board frightens me. Lots of racism, rudeness, vulgarity and intolerance. It's not all bad, by any means, but I think I'm going to stick with the BDSM boards for the most part.


THAT SUCKS! i would have been pissed off too...Just stay here with us OK!

pet
 
Nameless_Rose said:
I'm glad someone posted about this because I've been wanting to bitch about this for while. Here's one of my only posts from the GB:



This is the first response I got:

To which I replied:

Needless to say, that was the end of my forays into the GB. I mean, maybe that was some sort of weird joke, or maybe I did something wrong because I'm a noob, but honestly some of the other stuff I've seen posted on that board frightens me. Lots of racism, rudeness, vulgarity and intolerance. It's not all bad, by any means, but I think I'm going to stick with the BDSM boards for the most part.

Yes, at times it seems that it can be like swimming in a pool with sharks on that board. I do like to read it, but I'm not so inclined to post there. I probably lean toward being thin-skinned, but with such a non-threatning, non-judgemental post as yours, it's ridiculous (to say the least) to be blasted in that manner, such as you were. Perhaps that person just needs the meanness screwed out of him/her (or a good flogging session to relieve any underlying negative pressure?) ;)
 
Let me say this about the GB:

If I could chlorinate the gene pool, I'd start there.

Of course I have no doubt that there are folks There who would say that about people Here. So it's probably a good thing I don't get to throw in the Shock Treatment.
 
Nameless_Rose said:
I'm glad someone posted about this because I've been wanting to bitch about this for while. Here's one of my only posts from the GB:



This is the first response I got:

To which I replied:

Needless to say, that was the end of my forays into the GB. I mean, maybe that was some sort of weird joke, or maybe I did something wrong because I'm a noob, but honestly some of the other stuff I've seen posted on that board frightens me. Lots of racism, rudeness, vulgarity and intolerance. It's not all bad, by any means, but I think I'm going to stick with the BDSM boards for the most part.


It's because you're a noob.

You were being hazed.
 
the_pet said:
Some people over on the GB forum scare me. They're either very crazy or very mean/angry.

....but maybe i'm just naive and non-confrontational.


just saying....

It is quite the interesting place I will admit and can be very frustrating at times, but I will say that there is something to be said about being a part of something as varied.
 
Reference Post # 18 ...... ahuh : nods :

Even spared the "show us your bits" they were generous : chuckles :
 
@}-}rebecca---- said:
Reference Post # 18 ...... ahuh : nods :

Even spared the "show us your bits" they were generous : chuckles :

lol very generous...
 
Plucky19 said:
It is quite the interesting place I will admit and can be very frustrating at times, but I will say that there is something to be said about being a part of something as varied.


i still lurk over there but i keep my contribution to almost no talking ~ just nudity, and that combination seems to work well for the group :D
 
Evil_Geoff said:
Let me say this about the GB:

If I could chlorinate the gene pool, I'd start there.

Of course I have no doubt that there are folks There who would say that about people Here. So it's probably a good thing I don't get to throw in the Shock Treatment.


How about just "nuke 'em til they glow"?
 
Chris_Xavier said:

How about just "nuke 'em til they glow"?


Ugh, I know. When some of them (and I stipulate some, not all) actually do try to argue logically (as opposed to slandering one another for whatever thrill they get out of it) it still falls flat. I don't know if we'd want to nuke them and run the risk of them mutating or something. It's one thing to be a brainless asshole. It's a whole other thing to be a mutant brain eating asshole.

Wow, I'm really tired! Time to get some sleep!

:p
 
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