seela
Quark Thief
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If there's one thing I truly love, it is to learn and be exposed to all kinds of new things that challenge my thinking and broaden my horizons.
I have some experience of D/s dynamics, where I've been asked to read certain books or learn about certain topics so that I can provide a sounding board for the PYLs thoughts. I've also been asked to teach something to the PYL that I was pretty good at and they wanted to learn.
Once I was asked to study philosophy, because the guy I was involved with firmly believed that everybody would benefit from knowing more about philosophy. I read a lot and got really into the topic. We had several wonderful discussions and I learned so much from the experience and him. Even though the relationship is long gone, I still reap the rewards from the little task he gave me. And somehow I think he'd be totally thrilled if he knew he had such a long-lasting impact on me.
I've also been asked to read the PYLs favorite books. I found this incredibly interesting, because not only did I get to read books, but I also got a pretty good climpse into their head through the discussion that followed.
The learning or teaching can be something very tangible, too. There are times I've learned a specific skill, such as making their coffee just right. Or folding the laundry the way they prefer it.
I love to learn and I always feel great when I finally see I can keep up in a conversation and not feel lost or get that luscious crema on top of the espresso. I think I've benefitted a lot as a person from all those times I've been given a task to learn something, even if at the time it felt pointless. If nothing else, I've become more patient and a lot better researcher through it.
So, am I alone in this? Have you experienced or would you like to experience something like this? Maybe started to follow sports because your PYL is into it so that you can talk about it? Follow the news? Learned about quantum mechanics? Learned to French braid? Boil a perfectly runny egg? Give a massage?
PYLs, do you look at it as getting something for yourself (ie. more interesting discussions or perfectly folded t shirts) or do you also see it as an opportunity for the pyl to learn something worthwhile and possibly grow as a person?
I have some experience of D/s dynamics, where I've been asked to read certain books or learn about certain topics so that I can provide a sounding board for the PYLs thoughts. I've also been asked to teach something to the PYL that I was pretty good at and they wanted to learn.
Once I was asked to study philosophy, because the guy I was involved with firmly believed that everybody would benefit from knowing more about philosophy. I read a lot and got really into the topic. We had several wonderful discussions and I learned so much from the experience and him. Even though the relationship is long gone, I still reap the rewards from the little task he gave me. And somehow I think he'd be totally thrilled if he knew he had such a long-lasting impact on me.
I've also been asked to read the PYLs favorite books. I found this incredibly interesting, because not only did I get to read books, but I also got a pretty good climpse into their head through the discussion that followed.
The learning or teaching can be something very tangible, too. There are times I've learned a specific skill, such as making their coffee just right. Or folding the laundry the way they prefer it.
I love to learn and I always feel great when I finally see I can keep up in a conversation and not feel lost or get that luscious crema on top of the espresso. I think I've benefitted a lot as a person from all those times I've been given a task to learn something, even if at the time it felt pointless. If nothing else, I've become more patient and a lot better researcher through it.
So, am I alone in this? Have you experienced or would you like to experience something like this? Maybe started to follow sports because your PYL is into it so that you can talk about it? Follow the news? Learned about quantum mechanics? Learned to French braid? Boil a perfectly runny egg? Give a massage?
PYLs, do you look at it as getting something for yourself (ie. more interesting discussions or perfectly folded t shirts) or do you also see it as an opportunity for the pyl to learn something worthwhile and possibly grow as a person?