sinfulvenus
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- Feb 27, 2015
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I am a nineteen year old female and have been dabbling in the submissive side of BDSM for a couple years now. I've experimented with several exes but.. no one has completely satisfied my urges. I take into consideration that I was the one who introduced all of them to BDSM, so none were experienced dominants, but it still seemed like none of them took it seriously.
I know I like to be controlled and a exceptional amount of pain (Without going overboard, I suppose), but beyond that, I'm so curious about the lifestyle. I'd love to experiment with the lifestyle itself and not just behind-closed-doors stuff, but I can't even find a dominant to take the 'behind-closed-doors' stuff seriously. See my dilemma?
And also, if I do just so happen to find what I'm looking for, what does it take to be a good submissive? Tips, hints, etc.?
Any advice is welcome.
I know I like to be controlled and a exceptional amount of pain (Without going overboard, I suppose), but beyond that, I'm so curious about the lifestyle. I'd love to experiment with the lifestyle itself and not just behind-closed-doors stuff, but I can't even find a dominant to take the 'behind-closed-doors' stuff seriously. See my dilemma?
And also, if I do just so happen to find what I'm looking for, what does it take to be a good submissive? Tips, hints, etc.?
Any advice is welcome.
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