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Maddiel1

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Has anyone ever heard of something called a ruined orgasm? And has anyone ever experienced one?
 
Yes, it's when you are brought to orgasm and then the touching stops - so you cum without the wonderful sensations.
 
I experienced this for the first time a few nights ago, I had no idea what the hell was happening until it was explained to me. It was the strangest feeling, I was made to stop touching as soon as I felt the beginnings of the orgasm. My body felt something happen, it was a release but no pleasure in it. I was simply wondering if anyone else had felt this and what their experience was.
 
Maddiel1 said:
I experienced this for the first time a few nights ago, I had no idea what the hell was happening until it was explained to me. It was the strangest feeling, I was made to stop touching as soon as I felt the beginnings of the orgasm. My body felt something happen, it was a release but no pleasure in it. I was simply wondering if anyone else had felt this and what their experience was.
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Are you referring to orgasm denial?
 
Maddiel1 said:
No, this is different. You're body actually does orgasm but there is no pleasure in it. It's a strange sensation, frustrating though.
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It is not a pleasant sensation.. it's like you've been cheated... it sucks
 
Maddiel1 said:
Has anyone ever heard of something called a ruined orgasm? And has anyone ever experienced one?
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This is something I have recently played with a bit more. In fact I had a ruined orgasm by instruction earlier tonight.

For me it allowed me to take the edge off from cumming but still stay horny and act like the horny slut I am. Which actually is something I enjoy.

So while the orgasm was ruined the aftermath does not frustrate me because I enjoy still being horny because I was unsatisfied.

All the question is do enjoy that always on edge feeling or not.
 
It is the reason my wife cheated on me. I have premature ejaculation. She was just ready, and I came. She was furious with me. She found another man who could sexually satisfy her.
 
Maddiel1 said:
Has anyone ever heard of something called a ruined orgasm? And has anyone ever experienced one?
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Yes and yes.

For me personally, it's nothing special. I can't even call it frustrating, actually. It's like getting rid of your horniness without getting as much pleasure in the process.

I don't know, it's really popular in the orgasm denial community, but I don't really find it alluring or interesting in the slightest. Edging - can be sexy and frustrating and both enjoyable and torturous. THAT I can understand. But Ruined Ordasm is like "Ok, I wanna go read a book now. Or watch TV. Or walk a dog."

Granted, the arousal returns faster after that, but I still don't see a point. In the porn videos the guys will groan and struggle as if they really don't want their orgasm to be ruined... But for me it's just "whatever". It's kinda disappointing a bit, but not in a sexy or interesting way - and definitely it's not a huge thing.
In my mind, if you want to deny someone pleasure - edge them and then deny it alltogether. I don't see a point in a ruined orgasm.:cattail:
 
I occasionally have one by accident; I hate them. Kind of baffled why its a fetish, but eh, there are lots of other things people go nuts for that do nothing for me, and plenty of people who aren't into my favorite fetishes. *shrug*
 
its definitly not as pleasurable and almost "hurts" ;) but it leaves me still very horny and very willing. it can also lead to a dry orgasm...after ruining the orgasm..start strokimg again and keep going and another orgasm will follow. i find that one to be extremly intense and strange because there will be no cum...jist the orgasm. i try not to do it often as i have heard it isnt good for the balls..but its just something i've heard.

now multiple ruined in a row...now that is true torment!! i've had five before..almoat crying by the end..its kinda like having too much candy..it tastes so good but gives you a belly ache ;)
 
Is it wrong of me to enjoy watching these types of videos?

Don't know why, but I find it pretty hot, must be the domination aspect of it.
 
Personally, I don't consider these ruined orgasms. I like to say touchless climax.

For me, in my experience the climax itself is not the focus. The focus is the body high leading up to the climax. Generally, these touchless orgasms are a result of self gratification, or a result of edging, orgasm control, and orgasm denial. The pleasure comes from the rolling waves of near climax washing over the body over and over. Seeing her so lost in her need and willingness to do anything for release is what I love about it. Once allowed to or made to cum, the orgasm seems to resonate longer. Touchless climaxes can be an intense way to start an experience especially if you can cum mulitple times back to back.
 
ConnerH said:
Personally, I don't consider these ruined orgasms. I like to say touchless climax.
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I've seen it called "hands free orgasm" before, or HFO. Means something a little different in other contexts, but it shows up in porn titles.
 
TheNannyState said:
Is it wrong of me to enjoy watching these types of videos?

Don't know why, but I find it pretty hot, must be the domination aspect of it.
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i luv watching these. i do them to myself quite often. its always fun to watch myself spurt hands free.
 
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