Can't Stop Thinking About Cock...

[Bicurious4safeplay]

I'm a straight masculine guy who can't stop thinking about cock. It's nothing new for me. Pretty much since puberty I have been curious about cock. I did some light exploring with friends when I was in high school (clothed humping, jerking next to each other, that kind of stuff). As I got older, in my twenties, the thoughts started to fade. They would reappear from time to time, but some gay porn would normally do the trick and satisfy the craving.

Now I'm entering my mid thirties and for the last few years the idea of following through with my fantasy of playing with cock is non-stop. I'm married and very happy, but this urge to hold another man's cock and to suck his load out is just driving me crazy. Unfortunately my wife doesn't have a cock, that would have made this a whole lot easier. I have jokingly mentioned a curiosity to be with another man and it was not received well AT ALL.

Obviously I don't want to jeopardize my marriage, but at the same time, this craving is in my head every day. I have thought about trying to find a discreet guy to play with, surely there are other normal sane guys in my position, but where do I find them? It seems like there are a few guys from Houston on here, any one in the area interested in chatting and maybe more?

Anyone else on here been in this situation? Married, but always thinking about cock?

I had a chance recently but didn't follow though with it. A gay guy started talking to me and was clearly hitting on me. He eventually asked if I wanted to meet him later and I said maybe. I was extremely nervous. He gave me his number but I never called. He was a good looking guy, I just wasn't sure about meeting a complete stranger for sex, but trust me, I put a lot of thought into it.

What to do?

 

[J1biboi]

I can assure you that you are not alone in your situation. And as a guy in my late 60s I can also assure you that your desire for cock will not go away. if anything it will get stronger. If you get the chance, take it.

 

[Bicurious4safeplay]

Where do I meet someone? I've tried Craigslist and I feel dirty just visiting some of those ads. Is there a site for guys trying to meet for casual hook ups rather than one night stands? I'm not looking for a friend, just a clean good looking guy for weekly meet ups. There are some good looking guys in my neighborhood (dad types). I wonder if any of them would be interested... but how would I know without clearly suggesting my desire to suck their cock?

 

[bkarp8]

I am in the same situation, not attracted to men but want to suck a cock

 

[Bicurious4safeplay]

I am in the same situation, not attracted to men but want to suck a cock

Sucking cock is definitely my main fantasy, but I also want to feel another man suck my cock. The thought brings me to a full erection immediately. I have had lots of women suck my dick and it was always disappointing and never ended with me cumming. JusT thinking about a man wrapping his lips around my cock has me on the verge of unloading. I think if it ever does happen, I will be unable to last longer than a minute the first time.

 

[saintcero]

Your first post

Let's review from your first post. A good looking gay guy was hitting on you, gave you his number and asked if you wanted to meet him later. Short of him hitting you with his club and dragging you back to his cave, what more do you want? Call him, go to him. Tell him it is your first time and then let it happen.

 

[thongpanty]

I think we all are, thinking, wanting, doing,
your profile showes n/a, need to put yourself out there.

 

[Bicurious4safeplay]

Let's review from your first post. A good looking gay guy was hitting on you, gave you his number and asked if you wanted to meet him later. Short of him hitting you with his club and dragging you back to his cave, what more do you want? Call him, go to him. Tell him it is your first time and then let it happen.

I know. I just didn't see myself hooking up with a random guy I didn't know. He's gay and clearly not afraid to mess around with random guys (safety?). I was just really hoping one day I would be walking through my neighborhood and one of my neighbors would ask for a helping hand in their garage. Then something happens and before you know it I'm on my knees with his cock deep in my throat. That sounds a lot more appealing than meeting the random guy.

 

[Bicurious4safeplay]

I think we all are, thinking, wanting, doing,
your profile showes n/a, need to put yourself out there.

Where do I go to update my profile?

 

[thongpanty]

Where do I go to update my profile?

Where you signed up to lit...

 

[Mqoi]

A nieghbor who has mentioned before that he wondered what it's like to have another man suck his cock has asked me to come over to give him a hand this afternoon with something. He's liable to get more than just a hand if I have my way. I'll suck more than just the chrome off his trailer hitch.

 

[jackofthedawn]

Where do I go to update my profile?

The simplest way is to pull down the "Quick Links" menu on the button bar at the top of the web page, and select the "Edit Profile" item in the menu.

 

[dacoach44]

Exactly right

I can assure you that you are not alone in your situation. And as a guy in my late 60s I can also assure you that your desire for cock will not go away. if anything it will get stronger. If you get the chance, take it.

I wish to hell I had started sucking cock sooner. I will never stop it. I am with CD's, sissies, T girls, and one gay dude. Its ALL good. I am 72.

 

[midwestdude]

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[Mqoi]

This almost describes my situation to a T. I do not "have" a guy though. I would love t find a safe and discrete bud. But living in a small town doesn't help my situation at all, and I don't want to jeopardize my marriage.
But these are strong urges and I'd love to have a jerk and suck buddy, kind of like a fwb.

Sounds like my situation. Sexless marriage due to wife's health but she's told me she'd understand if I strayed a bit, but she doesn't want to know about it. And small town here as well.

The deal with the friend this past weekend fell through for reasons beyond our control, but I'll be there when he's ready to try again.

 

[Bicurious4safeplay]

So I think I finally found someone to hook up with for the first time. I found his ad on craigslist. Basically, it read like an ad that I would have wrote. He's married but has been curious to jerk and suck a guy for years. He's looking for a regular thing, not just one and done. Also, he's a bigger guy than me (he has 70 pounds on me) which really turns me on. Anyway, we sent some emails back and forth and we are both ready to give it a try. As long as he's being honest it will be a first for both of us. I just need to not chicken out at the last minute. Any tips for the first time?

 

[CuriousOlderM]

Welcome to the club... and good luck with your encounter... let us know how it works out..

 

[plesmore]

Do you exchange photos before meeting? I have always wondered how CregList worked out.

Yes, I know - I'm not a guy, but I know a guys that is fascinated with cocks - really in love with cocks. He don't think of himself as gay and does not want to kiss or hold another man, just wants to touch, hold and suck a cock. Is this a common thing?

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Very common, I think you'll find.

 

[sam7985]

I'm exactly like you that I've always fantasied about sucking since I remember. I did it once in high school then again a few more times in the last couple years. The urges come and go. I must say it is very erotic. I get so nervous up until it's in my mouth then it's incredible.

 

[yukonnights]

So I think I finally found someone to hook up with for the first time. I found his ad on craigslist. Basically, it read like an ad that I would have wrote. He's married but has been curious to jerk and suck a guy for years. He's looking for a regular thing, not just one and done. Also, he's a bigger guy than me (he has 70 pounds on me) which really turns me on. Anyway, we sent some emails back and forth and we are both ready to give it a try. As long as he's being honest it will be a first for both of us. I just need to not chicken out at the last minute. Any tips for the first time?

I don't in any way intend this to put a damper on your desire...but; One needs to be aware that not everyone tells the truth of their status and prior experiences. Your health and safety, as well as your marriage, are exposed to some potential danger. I would suggest that you meet first for a beer or cup of coffee and just talk. Get to know him and get a sense of his honesty. Also, if you're a real cautious type it wouldn't hurt to ask to do some STI/STD testing before getting involved. If it works out, it would be nice if he became a steady FWB and you wouldn't have to be out there searching again.

Again, not to try and stop you...just don't let your desires overwhelm your common sense.

 

[plesmore]

I don't in any way intend this to put a damper on your desire...but; One needs to be aware that not everyone tells the truth of their status and prior experiences. Your health and safety, as well as your marriage, are exposed to some potential danger. I would suggest that you meet first for a beer or cup of coffee and just talk. Get to know him and get a sense of his honesty. Also, if you're a real cautious type it wouldn't hurt to ask to do some STI/STD testing before getting involved. If it works out, it would be nice if he became a steady FWB and you wouldn't have to be out there searching again.

Again, not to try and stop you...just don't let your desires overwhelm your common sense.

It's not all that bad an idea to try to get a blood sample before getting intimate. Well, of course there are glory holes if one does not care much about such things...

 

[Jimee]

What about a m2m massage?

 

[yukonnights]

What about a m2m massage?

That would be a safe introduction to a new FWB but... I think most of us have, at some point, lost our resolve and good intentions when things begin to heat up

 

[MoleskineScribbler]

I think about it all the time.